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Looking forward to more #realworldsex videos @makelovenotporn in 2019

Whenever I’m away on vacation it’s become something of a tradition to record a short video introducing my newest #realworldsex film at Make Love Not Porn.

And I will do that on my return . . . but in the meantime, I wanted to take the opportunity to thank everyone who has viewed any of my videos there during the past year.

2018 has been my busiest year at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv since I uploaded my first submission five years ago and it has been wonderfully flattering, and fulfilling, to receive so many lovely messages over the past few months telling me how much people have enjoyed my contributions there.

And, of course, I’m hoping to have more fun videos to upload to my profile page at MLNP during 2019.

There are lots of screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why
I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Year – 2018

Modesty Ablaze "She Lover Strap-On Fun" video intro

I know that 2018 has been a difficult and worrying year for many people . . . here in the UK and right across the globe . . . and I certainly wouldn’t want to be-little or ignore those concerns, or worries.

But the focus for my Modesty Ablaze postings here, has always been to try to offer some alternative giggles and distractions and not take things too seriously.

And as has been a tradition at the end of each of my six years of Modesty Ablaze . . . I like take a quick glance backwards and remember the fun ups and downs of the last 12 months.

Now if you are a regular visitor here I’m sure you will know how much I love the #realworldsex concept of MakeLoveNotPorn . . . and it’s always really lovely to receive messages from so many people saying how much they enjoy my videos there . . . so to have reached over 50 videos hosted on MLNP was one of the highlights of the year. Especially as two of my own particular favourites, “Strap On Fun with She Lover” and “A Gentle Squeeze Part Two” have been so popular with my subscribers.

Modesty Ablaze "A Gentle Squeeze Part Two" video intro

But of course I’ve had lots of other fun times during the past 12 months as well.

Such as improving my Nursing skills in January . . . and some Fine Tuning in February.

Joining in some Winter Olympics fun in March . . . and then back to earth with some DIY in April.

May was the month I turned 50 at Make Love Not Porn . . . and June was when I published “Unmasked” Part 7 of my “Modesty Ablaze Diaries”.

In July I got rather Sunburnt . . . but recovered enough to revisit some Building Sites in August.

In September I joined the FoodForThoughtFriday meme to answer some questions about Starting Out . . . and carried on with my thoughts on Inspiration in October.

And finally, in November I thought it would be nice to share an excerpt from The Journey Beyond” Part 8 of my Diaries which I hope to publish in the early part of 2019.

So, I really do hope that these . . . or even more of my posts here at Modesty Ablaze . . . have brought at least some giggles and warmth throughout the year. Wishing you all lots more fun and laughter for 2019 !!!

A Modest Year – 2018

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Me-Time Teasing” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Abaze Introduces Me-Time TeasingI recently contributed a post to the Food-For-Thought-Friday blog-site on the joys ofMe-Time fun.

So it was quite a co-incidence to discover that my favourite #realworldsex videos website MakeLoveNotPorn was also devoting an entire edition to “Me-Time self-loving” fun. And why not! After-all, it’s only natural and normal isn’t it?

I do already have a number of Me-Time videos on my MakeLoveNotPorn profile of course . . . but as one can never get enough, I thought it would be fun to add another.

And, as I mentioned in answer to one of the questions on the Food-For-Thought-Friday prompt . . . one’s mind is the most powerful stimulant of all . . . and different things, and different thoughts running through my head, often make me aroused and wanting to “Play”.

Modesty Ablaze Me Time Teasing 1And one of my most common fantasies is imagining that I’m putting on a little show for one of my lovers . . . where they may look, but mustn’t touch. I suppose it’s to do with my exhibitionistic tendencies, as I tease them with my panties, or one of my toys . . . and hope that they get just as excited by watching, as I get by indulging in my fantasy.

But as with any fantasy . . . or in fact, anything I do . . . it has to be fun to be enjoyable and fulfilling. And I hope you will find that this new “Me-Time-Fun” video is BOTH of those things.

You can view my introduction to “Me-Time Teasing” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze Me Time Teasing 2There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Me-Time Teasing”  is my 57th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Gentle Squeeze Pt2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Gentle Squeeze Part 2It’s always nice receiving flattering messages and emails about one of my #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn. Because, as well as making me happy knowing that others can enjoy and feel part of the love and fun of my video-diaries . . . it also brings back wonderful memories of those particular special moments!!!

And a recent message about my “A Gentle Squeeze” video with Lover No. 36 reminded me that we still had a “Part Two” of that amazing night, that we’d never actually uploaded.

Goodness only knows why . . . because it certainly was an incredibly fun . . . and fulfilling evening.

And I really do mean “fulfilling” . . . because No. 36 has the most “Ma-hoosive” member I’ve ever had the pleasure of loving with . . . if you’ve viewed “Part One” of “A Gentle Squeeze” you will know just what I mean.

And after the most amazing, pounding fucking I think I’ve ever had . . . I had collapsed and curled-up into an exhausted heap.

Lover No.36 pounding Modesty Ablaze

The May 2015 edition on the MakeLoveNotPorn-blog pages of “Make Radiant Love Not Porn” previewed “A Gentler Squeeze” (Part One) as:

“Is it just me or does Modesty just get better and better? In this video, Modesty meets up with a lover that she hadn’t been able to rendez-vous with seen since late last year. Maybe there’s some truth to the statement that absence makes the heart grow fonder ’cause once they were given the opportunity, these two sure couldn’t keep their hands off of each other! Filmed by lover no. 1, hubby, this sweet reunion is filled with all sorts of ecstatic moments and a surprising downtown adventure that you’ll have to rent to see!”

Well, “Part Two” begins with No. 36 giving me a lovely relaxing “recovery massage” (he has big hands, as well) and his soothing palms rubbing up and down my back did . . . slowly . . . bring me back to life and ready for more!

Not more pounding though !!! Because I made it quite clear that if he wanted more fun it would have to be very slow, and very gentle.

And . . . as you will see when you join me beneath his lovely smooth body . . . it was just that. Slow and gentle enough even, for me to agree to roll over and sit up on top of him . . . and ride us both to exhaustion.

Modesty Ablaze riding Lover No.36So . . . re-living our Gentle Squeezing has brought back all those wonderful memories and I hope you will enjoy watching them too.

You can view my introduction to “Gentle Squeeze – Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Gentle Squeeze – Part Two”  is my 56th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Special Splashes” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Whilst enjoying a lovely vacation on my favourite Greek island, it’s become something of a tradition over the past five years to take a short break from my sun-worshipping on the beach, to introduce my newest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn.

Gosh, five years! Doesn’t time fly-by when you’re having lots, and lots, of fun ???

And there is certainly lots of fun . . . in abundance . . .  in “Special Splashes” my latest video with Lover No.14.

It’s the climax, if you’ll excuse the pun, from our “Modest Exposure” weekend, that Hubby and I spent with No.14 at his posh London hotel.

Modesty Ablaze Special Splashes #realworldsex 1And, if you have viewed any of my six previous “Modest Exposure” videos from that weekend, you will already know how much lovely fun we all had !!!

But “Special Splashes” is probably the most indulgent . . . and certainly the most . . . “close-up and personal” of all of our videos from that weekend. Particularly as, at several points during the fun, I take over the filming from Hubby . . . and love zooming-in on the action.

And, as you will see, there are soon two lovely spurting, splashing, explosions . . . a real sperm fest . . . which I’m sure you will enjoy watching just as much as I enjoyed filming it!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over”, one of our previous films in this Modest Exposure series, in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

You can view my introduction to “Special Splashes” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze #realworldsex video Special Splashes 2There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Special  Splashes”  is my 54th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Giggling Persuasion” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Giggling Persuasion" #realworldsex videoI’ve called my newest #realworldsex video at Make Love Not Porn, “Giggling Persuasion”, because . . . as you will see . . . it features lots of giggling, and lots of gentle persuasion!!!

It is from Day 2 of an amazing weekend visit to Lover No.14’s lovely hotel and carries on directly from my “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” video, featured here on my Make Love Not Porn pages recently.

We’d had a short break, re-energising ourselves after our earlier exertions, with some “unusual” chocolate treats.

I then wanted to give No.14 some special kisses . . . as he’d thoroughly spoilt and exhausted me with his own, very special kisses earlier.

But of course, he insisted my kisses would be far more “satisfying” standing right in front of his hotel windows, overlooking the busy railway station below . . . with the curtains still wide open!!!

He was soon quite excited though, so I was happy that we moved away from the windows and back on to the bed . . . for the sake of my modesty . . . and to rest my knees!

Modesty Ablaze embracing Lover No.14But in his excited state, No.14 wasn’t going to let me rest any other parts of my body as he slowly began to renew his explorations, and with lots of “different” kisses . . . and patient and fun persuasion . . . we were both soon locked in wonderful, passionate, and quite “energetic” embraces.

So energetic that he soon had me convulsing in another lovely, and exhausting, orgasm.

We’d been playing on the bed for so long . . . and after all that champagne earlier . . . that I was desperate for a widdle, so I hope you won’t mind that “Giggling Persuasion” ends rather abruptly as I had to dash off to the bathroom to relieve myself.

But there is still more fun to come from this wonderful evening . . . so Part Four (which I think I will call “Special Splashes”!!!) will be “coming soon”.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over” in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

You can view my introduction to “Giggling Persuasion” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze in bed with Lover No.14There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Giggling Persuasion”  is my 53rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Sticky, Wet & Sweet” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze Sticky Wet & Sweet at MLNPIf you viewed my last video with Lover No.14 , Day 2 – Starting Over,
you will know that having been bound in rope and brought to an amazing orgasm, I just needed to collapse onto the bed and slowly come-down from that lovely, exhausting high!!!

And, as you will see in this video, No.14 did gently untie me and then gave me a lovely, soothing massage. But it wasn’t long before his fingers and thumbs . . . and his licking tongue . . . began exploring all over again.

So my massage was slowly turned into another, calmer, but still rippling orgasm, eventually followed by some giggling recovery-time . . . and a new way to enjoy eating chocolate!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Day 2 – Starting Over” in their special Make Flourishing Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze had so much fun showing up at lover No. 14’s hotel suite wearing nothing but a trench coat, that she decided to do it all over again — this time with the added excitement of riding the train all the way there! Once en suite, Modesty quickly disrobes and No. 14 sets about doing what he does best — tying Modesty up and making her delirious with delight! Totally focused on Modesty’s pleasure, this video has the same charming banter we’ve come to enjoy from Modesty’s other videos with hubby and Lover No. 14. I just love how polite they all are while indulging in exhibitionism, bondage, and some intense #realworldorgasms!

Now, this latest video . . . which I’ve called “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” . . . follows on directly from “Day 2 – Starting Over and is still from early-on in our evening. So, as the night was still young, I’m sure you can imagine that there was lots more fun to come . . . and that will be for a Part Three which be available in the next week or so.

But, in the meantime, I hope you will enjoy . . . and feel part of . . . our Sticky, Wet and Sweet fun..

You can view my introduction to “Sticky, Wet and Sweet” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

Modesty Ablaze at MLNPThere are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Sticky, Wet & Sweet”  is my 52nd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “May Me-Time” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As I’m sure most of you are already aware . . . the month of May has been “International Masturbation Month”. And the lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv are celebrating with a special “Me Time” edition.

Of course, I don’t really need an excuse to indulge in some Me-Time Fun of my own . . . after all, we all know how good it is for one’s health and well-being . . . but I just couldn’t resist joining in with all the other #realworldsex people at MakeLoveNotPorn . . . and sharing my latest one-to-one indulgence!!!

It is actually from a lovely weekend break away recently . . . after Hubby and I had returned to our hotel after a fun Scavenger Hunting photo-expedition . . . which always leaves me feeling excited and horny!

Plus, being away from home, in a nice hotel room with a chilled bottle of champagne was even more arousing.

And . . . I don’t know about you . . . but I usually find that a new environment, and with new things on my mind, make each “Me Time” occasion completely different and, sometimes, really surprising in it’s intensity!!!

So intense in fact that . . . on this occasion . . . I was shudderingly speechless in my climaxing conclusion!!!

You can view my introduction to “May Me-Time” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“May Me-Time”  is my 51st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Fifty One #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Turning a Modest 50 at #realworldsex @makelovenotporn

Fifty? Goodness . . . Yes, I’ve just recently had my 50th #realworldsex video published at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv.

I know I’ve posted several times previously about my thoughts on MakeLoveNotPorn . . . but I thought that turning 50 at MLNP was worthy of post all of it’s own, to celebrate that fun and message of Make Love Not Porn.

Because all those years ago, way back in 2013, I would never have dreamt that I would ever have FIFTY videos in my MLNP library . . . in fact I was quite surprised I’d had the courage to even submit one!!! And when I watch it now, I do giggle, with embarrassment, but also actually with the fun memories as well.

Because, as I hope you will already have gathered if you are a regular visitor at my blog-pages here, I always want fun to be at the heart of EVERYTHING I do. Giggling and smiling means we are happy, and being happy means making those around us feel happy too . . . even if only for short moments in time . . . being happy should be natural and normal.

And when so much of what happens in the world these days, seems to be un-happy and un-natural, the #realworldsex fun at MakeLoveNotPorn gives such welcome feelings of happiness . . . and naturalness.

From the moment I first heard, and viewed, MLNP founder Cindy Gallop’s amazing and inspirational presentation video from her TedConference appearance in 2012, I knew I simply had to be part of the MLNP community.

If you haven’t yet viewed that Ted video, or her equally inspiring first presentation at Ted2009, then I urge you to do so . . . because listening to Cindy’s words . . . and the fun and motivational style in which she delivers them . . . was one of those defining, almost life-changing moments for me.

I say almost life-changing because of course I was, already, experiencing and enjoying lots and lots of #realworldsex moments . . . and had been for a long, long time . . .

. . . but although my pages here at Modesty Ablaze already existed, I suppose that I still had those nagging feelings of . . . well not, shame about the lifestyle Hubby and I were enjoying . . . but a worry that perhaps more “normal” people wouldn’t understand or accept the relationship choices we had made over our years together.

Cindy’s passion for the philosophy of MakeLoveNotPorn in those Ted videos was obvious and contagious . . . that our sexuality could be, and should be, fun and real and normal. A celebration of life and love and respect! And that inspired me to overcome my doubts . . . and modesty . . . to submit that first video.

And the fun has not only continued, but grown ever more fulfilling and empowering over the past five years, with another 49 #realworldsex videos!

From those first modest me-time moments . . .


To introducing new friends . . .


Adventures at our favourite dungeon . . .


Special girly-times . . .


Steamy Kisses . . .


Fun holiday frolics . . .


Strap-On Fun . . .


Festive Occasions . . .


Naughty Holiday Memories . . .


To simply . . . Amazing Hotel Evenings


BUT this post is not meant to be about JUST my videos . . . because I hope that by sharing some of these special, fun, moments of my own, it may inspire more people to investigate and experience the wonderful feelings of fulfilment, empowerment and sexual-confidence that being part of the community at MakeLoveNotPorn can bring . . .

There are full details of all of my #realworldsex videos, and the stories behind them, at my MakeLoveNotPorn page >here< . . . and much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Lace & Lingerie” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

We all love lingerie don’t we ? Well, I know I do . . . although it never seems to stay on for very long ! (LOL !!!)

But . . . it does make me feel sexy whenever I slide into one of my outfits. Not that I ever wear nighties or pyjamas to bed of course!

Instead, I wear my lingerie items for special occasions . . . perhaps for entertaining a special friend . . . or, perhaps when Hubby and I are going out for an evening of fun at a local club or bar.

But . . . I do like to feel sexy . . . just in case. (LOL !!!) So, before setting out for the evening, I always like to take my time, going through my wardrobe, to choose an outfit that best suits my mood at the time. Pulling out one item after another, trying them each on . . . and teasing Hubby with a mini fashion-parade . . . which often leads to a fun delay before reaching a final decision.

And as an extra part of our playtime . . . those “fashion-parades” are often captured on Hubby’s video camera. So I thought it would be quite fun . . . especially as last Thursday it was National Lingerie Day . . . to put together a compilation of some of those different outfits, coming out of my wardrobe and being slid into . . . and out of.

Now, as I said, I always end-up feeling quite sexy and aroused on occasions like this. So sometimes one just has to calm things down, before leaving on our journey for the evening ahead . . . by laying down and having naughty flashbacks about previous occasions when I have worn some Lingerie and Lace!!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” in their special Make Lingerie Love Not Porn edition as:

In Modesty Ablaze’s 50th #realworldsex video to MLNP (!!!) she shares some of her favorite lingerie moments. This compilation has a fashion show for hubby where Modesty shows off her enviable lingerie collection, and then flashbacks to some amazing nights with Lover No. 36 and Lover No. 50. Congratulations on 50 videos, Modesty!!!

You can view my introduction to “Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Of Bows & Lace & Lingerie”  is my 50th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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