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50 Sexy Questions – 1 to 5

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I’ve been following the wonderfulCorrupting Mrs Jonesblog pages for years and years now, having first discovered her via Sinful Sunday I believe. Firstly, I was drawn to her fun and beautiful photos, often set in glorious locations and featuring her lovely, and enviously impressive, nipples!

But the more I read through the thoughtful and wonderfully expressive and interesting words that normally accompanied her photos, the more I became engrossed in her, and Mr Jones, lifestyle and experiences. Because … despite being a hemisphere in physical-distance apart … that lifestyle and experiences seemed to be so similar, and as fulfilling, as that shared by Hubby and I.

And those similarities were even more apparent as I began reading through herThirty Dirty Questionssection from her blog header bar >here<:

Gemma herself had found the inspiration of those questions from another blogger, Brigit Delaney (who no longer seems active), but under Gemma’s progression has since evolved into “50 Filthy Questions”. So, with Mrs Jones permission, I thought I’d love to join-in and follow that concept with some answers of my own to the same original questions.

I’ve preferred to re-title my own version as Fifty “Sexy” Questions rather than the “Dirty” connotation. Just because I’ve always wanted to push the view that sex is not “dirty”, I’d rather think of sex as just … “sexy”.

But anyway … I’m not sure how far along I’ll get in keeping-up with my answers … but I thought it might be fun, and would certainly re-kindle some lovely memories.

So … I thought I’d start with just the first Five:

Question 1: How do you define awesome sex. (ie what makes sex better than good)
I always look back on the morning after the night before, (or in the hours after if the event wasn’t actually in the evening lol!!!) and think “Was it fun? And was it exciting and different?” Because that is for me, what makes things “awesome”.
Whether an hours-long, passionately, indulgent session of slow and gentle lovemaking, building up to bed-sheet-creasing, and consuming, series of orgasms and wind-downs, or instead … perhaps brief, spur-of-the-moment encounters in the most unexpected and unplanned situations.
So if it was fun and exciting … and yes different … then that is an awesome, memorable and wonderfully fulfilling experience.
But of course, in any of those situations, I think that what will always make them “better than good” is that one needs a good connection with ones partner, or partners. I have to feel completely at ease with myself, and also at ease in the actual moment/situation. And, at the same time, I think there needs to be a special communication, verbally for me at least, in order to completely let oneself go and fully enjoy the moment.

Question 2: How do you feel about public displays of affection (PDA). You can take this as far as kinks in public.
Um … I’m not sure about this one actually. Hubby and I always held hands in public when we initially started “courting”. And would perhaps occasionally exchange quick pecks on the cheek, as we strolled or perhaps were having drinks at a bar or pub. (I was young and very shy of course).
But then as other “friendships” developed, and if I or us, as a couple were out in public with a lover, or another “special” couple, hand-holding or public pecks on the cheek with someone other than Hubby would probably be rather unlikely. We’d reserve that for behind-closed-doors!
However, during our swinging club experiences, kissing and fondling and then obviously “more”, with new “friends for the evening” would not be a problem at all. It was just natural! But, I suppose, those situations are not really “public” in the specific sense of the question.

Question 3: What are your sure fire turn ons and / or turn offs?
“Turn ons”
I always find someone who is confident, yet NOT overbearingly so, and fun and slightly cheeky in a nice, suggestive way is going to gain my attention, and possible interaction. And, of course, easy interaction once again is going to come through good communication. But always of course with a sense of respect and humour.
“Turn offs”
For me, everything that is the opposite of what “turns me on” is guaranteed to put me off. So … someone who doesn’t have that “sparkle” of easy engagement and interesting conversational approach, is very unlikely to capture my interest. And certainly, any hint of arrogance, or disrespect will instantly have me politely saying “no thank you”. This is true for me in everyday life and “normal” situations, but even more so at swingers clubs or events.
And, of course, it should go without saying that, in any of my fetish, or FemDom occasions, arrogance and/or disrespect is an immediate no-no. Such bad-behaviour in my presence wouldn’t even get to the stage of qualifying for the punishment that the subject may actually be desiring!!!

Question 4: What do you think about when you masturbate?
Oh goodness … So many different things on any different occasion!
Because, in my case, my very catholic upbringing and schooling, and all those mores and morals in ones early years, has an undeniable impact on ones thinking and morals doesn’t it???
Then I met Hubby (lol!!!) and his assertion that “everyone masturbates, even the queen … even the pope”!!!
And suddenly everything changed … moments of wonder, and exploration and … oh my … excitement AND fun!!!

So what to I actually think about?
Well … in the early days of our relationship it was probably on the fun we’d had, where we’d been … and where we’d ended-up!!!
And then, I discovered “vibrators” … and “me-time” took on a completely … and wonderfully fulfilling … different meaning!!!
But then as time went on and I really began finding myself and my newfound freedom and free-thinking … and especially in my first extra-marital “fling” (I think you’d need to read my About page for more explanation) … it would always be about the night after. Or, about the next meeting to come.
And then, in our early swinging club days, I’d almost always wake-up the morning before feeling very nervous, but incredibly excited and incredibly horny. And then on the morning after, thinking about the previous evenings fun, someone we played with, someone we didn’t. Oh my !!!
And then, from my fascination with all things naughty, discovering Fetish and FemDom which inspired my Mistressing hobby! Which led me into a completely new territory of completely embracing my sexuality and self-belief and empowerment.
And goodness, even thinking, and writing these notes down here has made me begin to feel quite tingly …
(And I did post some similar thoughts on masturbation in myFood For Thoughtposting back in 2018).

Question 5: What are your thoughts about porn?
It was way, way back in the days of VHS tapes that Hubby and I first viewed porn on our tiny (it seems now) front room television. And I can’t deny that I did find it arousing. Just because it was sex and … at first … seemed fun and “naughty”.
But … we both quite quickly found them awfully false and contrived and, most importantly, actually less and less fun.
Then we discovered Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper. Both women, and both whom, through not only their performance, but through their eyes and smiles in the way they actually seemed to address the camera, seemed genuine and REAL. And it seemed to me, left me in no-doubt of their consensual enjoyment and involvement in what they were doing.
For me … though many I’m sure will disagree … they actually championed a woman’s sexuality and a woman’s right to express, and be proud of, one’s sexuality.
And THEN … and even more game-changingly important for me … I discovered Cindy Gallop and her amazing MakeLoveNotPorn. And if you’ve been reading me here for any length of time you will already know how much I love the ethos and open celebration of body-positivity and sexual freedom that I continue to believe in.
And I say, continue to, because I know that with the ever changing, and growing, reach and power of the internet, the “porn industry” is a contentious and worrying issue. For which I don’t have, or know, the answers to …

So … if you’ve read this far … perhaps you would like me to continue? Let me know your own thoughts … and opinions. Because, I do truly believe that “great or awesome” anything comes from great or awesome communication.


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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Looking Back #sinfulsunday

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As I mentioned in my #boobday posting on Friday, this time of year seems to be all misty grey and gloomy skies, and early evening darkness.

So, right now, I’m looking back to much warmer nights on my balcony this past July … and to previous summer holiday fun times … and counting the months until I can be back there again!

But for now I shall be searching for some more recent warming Sinful Sunday fun by tapping on the lovely lips below.

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Welcoming #sinfulsunday

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“I suspect you probably assumed that a Dungeon would be a dark and sinister place didn’t you?”

“But actually, I normally prefer to transform mine into a fun and enlightening environment … especially when it’s one’s first time being strapped into my chair!”

However … if dark and sinister really is more your thing … just tap the Sinful fun lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Lapping #sinfulsunday

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I’m hoping we’ll be able to spend a little more time travelling in 2025. But my favourite beach … and it’s gentle, warm lapping waters … will certainly take some beating!!!

For more explorations and joyous Sinful fun this weekend, firmly lap at the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Bottom #sinfulsunday

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We are away “exploring” this weekend so this is a quick, impromptu, “Thank You” for a gentleman who left a comment on my Boobday post on Friday, asking to see “more of” my bottom.

So quickly grabbing my fav hotel-room tassled-wrap this morning, I thought I would show him just that.

I do have a thing for Tassles of course!!

For more Sinful fun this weekend, firmly rub the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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A Modest Re-create #sinfulsunday

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I actually quite enjoyed art in my school days … though I could never produce anything remotely creative myself … I always enjoyed looking, usually at things a little more abstract or unconventional!!!

But I found Goya’s “The Naked Maja” instantly arresting and startling from the moment it first came to my attention … definitely pre-teens, and definitely when I knew that nudity was frowned-upon and unacceptable, and somehow naughty and dangerous! (And I’ve always, always loved the naughty and dangerous!!!)

And the thing that I loved about Goya’s painting was the almost defiant and unashamed look in the subject’s face. AND the fact that goodness me, one could clearly see a whisp of pubic hair!!!

So, although I may not have the grace … nor the pubic hair … of the lady concerned, it immediately sprung to mind when I saw that this week’s prompt at Sinful Sunday was to recreate an image, or iconic / famous work of art.

You can see that memorable, inspiring, and motivational, image below.

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And, of course, during our fun re-creation session this afternoon, and watching Hubby apply the greytones to his phone-photo, it made me think that I should add it to my #polaroidspast collection!

You can view lots more, creative and fun, re-creations at this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze MLNP Crowd Funding Campaign 2024 @makelovenotporn

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Hello everyone it’s Modesty Ablaze … back on my favourite Grecian Island for my summer 2024 holidays.

And, if you’ve been following my pages here for any length of time, you will know that it’s become something of a tradition for me to film a short video telling you about my latest clips at Make Love Not Porn.

But this year it’s actually been just too hot to do much filming out on the beach.

It’s been absolutely lovely of course, but just far too hot. So we’ve been constantly in and out of the water to cool down … but mainly just in the water!

But this morning I’ve come down especially early to the beach so that I can indeed sit and tell you about my current videos at the wonderful Cindy Gallop’s Make Love Not Porn.

Because … following my “retirement” last year, I soon began receiving lots of emails asking what had happened to all of my videos there.

Well … I’m delighted to say that ALL of my videos are back, and live, on the Make Love Not Porn website.

And, I’m even happier to say that 100% of the proceeds from every viewing of my films there is being donated directly to Make Love Not Porn’s current crowd-funding campaign.

So … I urge you to visit, and help support their lovely and inspirational website, from any of the links on my MakeLoveNotPorn pages here. Or, from the orange MLNP logo in the sidebar or here below.

You can watch me reading this post, directly from the beach, by clicking on the picture above, or from the link >here<.

It’s free to register at Make Love Not Porn and you will be able to view not just all of my own 100+ videos now … but lots and lots more Real World Sex videos from like-minded people from all over the world.

PLUS all of my Intro Previews … for each of my videos there … feature FREE preview clips from the video itself.

So … enjoy !!! Bye for now …

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

September 30th Update: This is a re-posting of a post that I originally published at the end of August … however, as I’m hoping to have some more MLNP videos to add to my profile there soon, I thought I would re-post it again today. And, as a special treat I shall, send a free-video link to the first existing PMAG Member to email me and mention this specific re-post!!!

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modestly Weighing #sinfulsunday

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“I use the Weight-to-length ratio method you see … simple physics really … to determine one’s Milking time”.
“So … do you think you can prove me wrong?”

For more Sinful fun this weekend, firmly squeeze the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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I do so wish … #sinfulsunday

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I do so wish … in so many ways right now … that I could be sitting here peacefully once again.

I’m sure you will find many more wishes fulfilled at this week’s Sinful Sunday by tapping the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Favourite Rocks #sinfulsunday

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As you may have noticed in many of my Summer Holiday photos over the years, my favourite beach is quite rocky at each end. But there is only one size-able rock in the middle …

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… which actually makes a lovely focal point and has featured in many of my Members photos and videos over the years.

And you can see many more pictures beginning with R at this week’s Sinful Sunday by tapping the sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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