Swingers Clubs

I occasionally receive emails from readers from outside of the UK (most often from America, but I recently even had a request from Australia) asking if I could recommend a Swingers Club here in London. They always point-out that whilst it is easy enough to find clubs listed on-line, when one is on holiday and time is limited it is always nice to have a recommendation from someone who may have visited before. So I thought it may be a nice idea to add a list of clubs here, not just from London but from anywhere in the world wherever you may be reading this from. Please do email me with links for any club you’d like to recommend from your home-town, or that you’ve discovered and enjoyed on your travels. And it doesn’t have to be just Swingers Clubs . . . it could be your favourite BDSM club . . . or whatever takes your fancy. I will add the link as soon as I am able, along with any specific comments or observations you’d like to make.


The VA comes very highly recommended … “the best we’ve been to” our special friends have said. With a huge hot tub, open and private play areas, fully licensed bar, on-site hotel and gorgeous decor, you’ll see why more and more swingers are choosing to become members at The Vanilla Alternative. To quote the VA website: “We focus our efforts on the finer details too, adding a feminine touch of class which really makes our venue stand out from the crowd. Our guests come first, and we want The Vanilla Alternative to be a place where you will feel safe enough to live out sexual fantasies, and come back time and time again”.
As I say, VA comes highly recommended … so I think you might see Hubby and I there soon!

AbFabParties – Near Heathrow Airport

A total erotic experience … AbFabParties is Britain’s premier house party venue. We provide a sophisticated, unpressured environment for all our party guests. Our unrivalled 20,000sqft+ play space has a wide range of facilities: sexy SINema, meet and mingle dance area, fully equipped dungeon, dark room, exhibitionist ballroom, harem room, pool, hot-tubs, lockable and open play rooms and much, much more!

The Hellfire Club – Sunbury-on-Thames

Maintaining the traditions of the oldest Swingers Club in England. This is not just swinging, this is swinging with style! We bring swingers together in an atmosphere where they can realise their erotic fantasies.

The Offficial Venue For The Erotica Swingers After Party, 26th October!

OurPlace4Fun – North London

We offer the BEST Weekly Adult Swinging Parties in London, you can release your Inhibitions, and Act Out your Wildest Fantasies, Bukkake ! Wife Swapping ! Cuckolding ! Exhibitionism & Role Play ! Voyeurism Peeping ! Gangbangs ! Bi Girl Fun ! and More !

Arousal – Dunstable Play areas have been designed to cater for all comfort zones, fantasies and desires, to be explored at your leisure. Dance floor with pole, cage, podium, large cinema with viewing gallery, couples only area, large play room with mirror’s, swing, dungeon, private rooms and much more!

Atlantis Evolution – Stoke on Trent Voted the Number 2  Swingers Club and the Number 1 Nightclub Themed Swingers Club in the UK by The ‘Sex In The Cities Guide’ December 2012. Full size orgy room, sex swing room, dark room, grope room, 4 bed mezzanine deck, 2 double lockable rooms!


Chateau Vino – Queensland Chateau Vino Swinger’s Club on the Gold Coast, Queensland, is one of the friendliest and classiest swingers clubs in Australia. Whether you are a local or a visitor from interstate or internationally we welcome you to visit our club to meet new people and party in a safe, comfortable and legally approved environment.

Mikes Place – Queensland At Mike’s Place we are constantly striving to improve this standard further. It is important to us to continuously enhance the benefits available to members and regular party-goers. Hence the ongoing improvements to facilities and the ever-increasing diversity of service to cater for ALL of our visitors and members requirements. Friday Nights are for Couples, Single Ladies and Single Men. Saturday Nights are for Couples and Single Ladies only.


Club Sparty – Auckland Club Sparty is a classy, relaxed Bar/Nightclub where the music is something you can ‘tap your toes’ to (and actually talk over), the lighting dimmed. The club is one of the very few, purpose-built, on-premise Couples / Alternative Lifestyles Clubs in New Zealand, and the only one with a Spa / Sauna area. For Couples, Single Females (and on Thursdays only in strictly controlled numbers) – Single Males that wish to, maybe, explore Alternative Lifestyles (Swinging, Fetish, BDSM etc etc) in a relaxed comfortable environment.


Fun4Two – Rotterdam, Holland Fun4Two is located in a very beautiful old farmhouse and is situated in the west of Holland, 30 minutes from Amsterdam and 10 minutes from Rotterdam. Opened in 1996 and one of the most well-known and talked about Swingers Clubs in Europe.

Kastel Waterloo – Reuver, The Netherlands Housed in a Castle fully renovated in 1997, Kastel Waterloo features two floors of themed rooms for meeting unknown lover(s), changing partners, groupsex, triosex, exhibitionists and especially voyeurs in exciting situations with peepholes and holes placed for anonymous touch contacts.


Le Trapeze – New York Le Trapeze is a New York City swinger club devoted to indulgence. We encourage local swinger couples and unsure, yet interested, couples to visit our lifestyle club in Midtown, New York City. We entertain all curiosities.

Miami Velvet – Miami Miami Velvet is Florida’s largest private adult lifestyle nightclub with over 40,000 members to date and 20,000 square feet of pure “on-premise” luxury. Miami Velvet was named Best Swingers Club 2009 by HedoOnline and is the premiere playground for sexy couples and select singles. It is an upscale private nightclub that gives you the freedom to express yourself in your sexiest attitude and attire.

Trapeze – Fort Lauderdale Trapeze is dedicated to providing adventurous individuals the finest swinging experience by providing a safe and comfortable place to engage in your wildest fantasies. Come alone or bring a guest, lounge on our copious couches, nosh on our extensive buffet, have a drink from our BYOB Bar. Our courteous staff is here to make sure that the atmosphere is first-class and that your needs are fully attended to. Trapeze caters to sensual and erotic couples and singles who enjoy swinging in a comfortable and clean venue.

Club XTC – San Bernadino Our Swingers Parties are for couples only. We have a cabaret style club room with a dance floor, stage with stripper pole, state of the art lighting system, hot dance music and a nice atmosphere to mingle. We also feature a shower and two bathrooms, as well as a dark room which has a queen bed in it. Sex swings and an Electric OB table, large playroom with 4 queen beds.

Do let me know your thoughts on the above if you have visited recently . . . or if you would like to add your own favourite club. Email me at: modestyablaze@gmail.com Xxx – Katie

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  9. Hi there, I had a great time in December last year at Le trapeze in Fort Lauderdale after meeting a beautiful fun Lady Nadia on the Swingers
    cruise in November, who told me if I had a chance go check on the club and we did, thanks Nadia. I live in Australia and have been to most of the clubs
    there, I think the best friendliest upmarket club is in Brisbane called
    Mikes Place, check out this Club if you are going to Australia for holidays.
    I’m sure you will have a great time.

  10. Alicia – Thank you for your comment. I have added your recommendation and would love to hear more of your experiences at other clubs in Australia.
    Xxx – K

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