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Modest Dice #boobday 380

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Whenever I’m on holiday, I always try to ensure that I never wear the same accessories twice!!!

And I think if you scroll back through my, 380 #boobday Friday’s now, you won’t find the same necklace?

And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 380 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Strap-on Fun #sinfulsunday

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Some of the most fun I’ve had with my Mistress Modesty Strap-ons hasn’t necessarily been in the dungeon!!!

Such as this wonderful evening with the amazing SheLover!!!

And I hope you will all visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more sensual and sexy fun by gently pushing the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Fronds #boobday 379

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What do you think of my holiday fronds? And no … it’s not a large Sombrero!!!

But I thought it would be nice to be beneath for this week’s #boobday Friday.

Please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Holiday Pegs #sinfulsunday

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“Well … you just sit down there and close your eyes, and I’ll explain exactly why I’m just hanging-up a single piece of string’.” I said to SubbyHubby as he pulled up a chair on our holiday balcony.

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“Now do you see why???” I said to him after quickly grabbing his un-expectant cock. “I’m hoping that having you attached to our washing line for an hour or two, may stretch some extra length into that disappointingly tiny dick of yours!!!”

For more teasing and stretching at this week’s Sinful Sunday, just pull gently on the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Nails #boobday 378

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It’s always nice to feel the summer sun on my … freshly painted nails!

Particularly as I can show them off on my #boobday Friday post today.

Please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Shave #sinfulsunday

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“If there’s one thing I can’t abide on holiday … it’s a 5-o’clock shadow … now just sit still and stop your shaking!!!”

To get to grips with all the fun at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, simply grab hold of the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Lily #boobday 377

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The lily is normally associated with purity and renewal apparently!

So they are, of course, entirely appropriate for my #boobday Friday post today, aren’t they?

And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 370 BoobDays you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 11 to 15

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In grey, damp January … my thoughts always turn to warmer, sunnier days. And usually to the thought of wishing I was back standing on my favourite, summer holiday, beach!!!

And this morning my thoughts have also turned to continuing with my homage to the wonderfulCorrupting Mrs Jonesblog page ofThirty Dirty Questionswhich can be found from her blog header bar >here<.

So … this morning’s post follows-on at the very end of the year with my own answers to questions 6 to 10 … having re-titled my own version as Fifty “Sexy” Questions rather than the “Dirty” connotation … because I’ve always wanted to push the view that sex is not “dirty”. I’d rather think of sex as just … “sexy”.

As I said then, I’m not sure how far-along I’ll get in keeping-up with my answers … but I thought it might be fun … and would certainly re-kindle some lovely memories.

So … here are my answers to Questions 11 to 15:

Question 11: Would you ever visit a sex therapist? What would be the reason and what do you think their advice would be for you?
I am grateful that I’ve never had the need to even think about visiting a therapist. So my answer to this question is definitely a “no”. However, as I’ve said in one of my earlier answers here, I do believe that “great sex always begins with great communication”. So if anyone should ever have doubts, or worries, or questions, in their mind about any aspect of their “private life”, then I think they certainly should seek professional help and guidance. (What’s that old saying? “A problem shared, is a problem solved!”

Question 12: Is there anything about sex that embarrasses you, causes shame or fear or makes you nervous? And what is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during sex?.
LOL !!! No, nothing about sex embarrasses me!
And whilst there are probably many embarrassing moments … I can’t remember any that caused anything more than just loud bursts of laughter … and a momentary pause before continuing!!!

Question 13: What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to?
We all have sexual dreams and fantasies don’t we. And if not, then you absolutely should … because I always have, since as long as I can remember. And although in my earlier pre-teen days I know I felt guilty and ashamed about those fantasies, meeting Hubby when I did, soon allowed me to release and let-go of that shame and guilt. And begin this amazing journey!!!

And as to what kinds of things I am drawn to … well all kinds obviously!!! Depending on the circumstances, and my mood at the time … and as long as it’s always entirely (and obviously) completely consensual … then I’ve always enjoyed exploring almost everything in the sexual and kink spectrum.

Question 14: If you were to create a sexy playlist intended for a hot date at home, what would be on it?
Again it depends on the circumstances … and my mood at the time … and the person, or persons, involved.
And to be honest, once I begin to immerse myself, and get “lost-in-the-moment(s)”, the background noise and environment always gets lost and muted, and definitely becomes the last thing on my mind.

Question 15: Have you ever kissed someone of the same sex?
Oh, yes, on many, many occasions.
The first occurred quite spontaneously sitting at the bar of our favourite Swingers Club, talking with the lovely, lovely chaperone who always greeted “newbies” and showed them around the club, and explained the rules and “etiquette” of how to conduct oneself and what to do should either of us feel uncomfortable.
We became very friendly with this lovely lady, and as we soon became regulars (every Saturday night in those first few months lol !!!), and were normally among the first couples to arrive (the club was very, very local to us!!!), we would always sit and chat until it became busier and she would begin doing her “meet and greet”. And on probably, our third or fourth visit, as we were sat at the bar, she began gently stroking my forearm and then just lent forward and began giving me the most wonderfully passionate kiss.
I’d never kissed a woman before, certainly not in that way, and it was just the most deliciously soft and wonderful … and dizzying … experience. Then she stopped, and without a word, stepped down and led me round into the main playroom … where we just continued!!!
Needless to say, Hubby followed to sit across the room and watch … and told me it was one of the most sexually arousing things he’d ever seen or felt.

As it certainly was for me as well.

And as you can imagine, it certainly wasn’t the last!!!


So … if you’ve read this far … perhaps you would like me to continue? Let me know your own thoughts … and opinions. Because, I do truly believe that “great or awesome” anything comes from great or awesome communication.


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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Rules & Punishment #sinfulsunday

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Originally posted for Kink of the Week around the beginning of 2022, but subsequently lost from my pages here during my “semi-retirement”. (See Modestly Returning from April 2024).

You may be surprised when I tell you that I’ve always believed in following “the rules” … I was brought up a good Catholic girl after all. So ones conduct and adhering to the principles and codes of acceptable behaviour was ingrained, and in my younger years at least, unquestioned.

As was the notion that should one stray, chastisement and punishment was always bound to follow … in some form or another.

And so of course, it was almost second-nature for me to carry those principles forward as part of my Mistress Modesty persona.

And yet, such is the incongruous nature of the world of kink and fetish that one often finds oneself in, that “punishment” turns out to be a much sought after … and most enjoyable of passions … for all of those involved!!!

So my rule today is to visit this weekend’s Sinful Sunday, to discover lots more fun, by smacking the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Elust 181 – January 2025

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Cover image courtesy of Angelica Noi.Photography by Chris Nutt.

I am delighted to have my recentModest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10posting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world.


So … Welcome to Elust 181

Cover image courtesy of  Angelica Noi. Photography by Chris Nutt.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

If you have a post included, please re-post the latest edition on your own blog, ideally with your own unique comments next to each link, or a paragraph for each category and/or write your own introduction.

For SEO purposes, non-identical re-posts of Elust are much better for search ranking, and it’s more appealing for readers.

Here’s an Example of Elust 180 published by Sextoy DB with unique comments for each post.

Click here to Subscribe to email updates if you’d like to receive Elust as an email once per month.

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Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Come-In (Part 2)

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 5

Peach Kisser, Mid-Flight Hospitality

Simone Francis, Fetish Secretary

Ambyr Leigh, My Terrible Date Fucked Me Bareback In The Backseat Of His Car

Schey Place Books, The Story So Far

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Natalie Hepburn, Surviving a Dead Bedroom

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Erotism and the Transcendence of the Ego

Blogging

Miss Ruby Reviews, A Decade in the Sex Toy Industry

Erotic Non Fiction

Modesty Ablaze, Modest 50 Sexy Questions – 6 to 10

Awakening Your Inner Essence, The alchemy of surrender and activation

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Twisted Beast Marchosias

Oh Joy Sex Toy, The Uberrime Fantasy by Hien Pham

Sydney Screams, FemmeFunn Klio Vibrator Review

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Cara Sutra, How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

Sex Work

Lady Ava Sheridon, The Application Process; and why yours might be unsuccessful

Kristina J, Authenticity and Connection: The Art of Being Real in Sex Work

Princess Kaz, Dommes – Carving Out You-Time

Miss Kim Rub, Leather Fetishist Domme

Sex Worker Search, Are Sex Workers Welcome on Bluesky?

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humour

History of BDSM, “People Who Like Kinky Sex Are Just Bad In Bed”: Evie Magazine and the Raw Milkmaid Dress


Ambyr Leigh, Awakening Your Inner Essence, Cara Sutra, Fern River Cub, History of BDSM, Jerusalem Mortimer, Kristina J, Lady Ava Sheridon, Miss Kim Rub, Miss Ruby Reviews, Modesty Ablaze, Morgan Destera, Natalie Hepburn, Oh Joy Sex Toy, Peach Kisser, Princess Kaz, Schey Place Books, Sex Worker Search, Simone Francis, Sydney Screams, Tantric Sexual Healing


Elust Sex Blogs

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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