Pour Me A Glass Members – December 2024 #PMAGW Update

Mistress Modesty UK Caning 2 Subs

My main first-view PMAG Members Video for December is “Caning Two Subs” … in response to several requests for more of my Mistress Modesty Caning content.

Now although I am NEVER particularly extreme in the application of my, several, canes … and certainly could never carry-out a heavy “judicial” caning … I do admit to actually enjoying building the intensity as I become more “warmed-up” myself. Particularly if my submissive subject is clearly enjoying his beating. And what could be more fun than one lovely, quickly reddening bottom in front of me? … Why TWO of course!!!

And you will quickly see my … and their … obvious enjoyment as I begin with my warming Slapper, and then Riding Crop … before bringing out my favourite, Brazilian Cane!!!

And … my second first-view video for December is … “The Main Squeeze – Part 2”, and those among you who may have been following me for some time, will probably be familiar with that title before. Because, it is actually from one of my most popular … but very long … videos at my MakeLoveNotPorn profile. But this “directors cut” version is one of several shorter edits from that particular evening, which feature some more candid moments that were not actually included in that MLNP video.

If you are one of my Telegram Channel followers, you will have already seen “Part 1” of the “directors cut” and this video follows on directly from where that one left off!!!

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Cigar Smoking Fetish adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – As I mentioned above, I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, and I will email more details of also joining me there … or message me from the form on myContactpage if you prefer!!!

And this month’s Photo Gallery is especially for Sally who messaged me during the month to tell me how much she had missed my postings during my “semi-retirement”… and especially my Mistressing FemDom photos. So this gallery is from one of my London Dungeon Archives photo shoots.

And, as always, do let me know if there are any particular themes, or photo opportunity settings you would like to ask me about for future gallery updates because … as you all know … my PMAG Members page does allow me to share much more “candid” videos and photos than I can post on my other pages here!!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.


If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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Modestly “Red” #sinfulsunday

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In this month’s “Colour Filters” introduction, Molly mentioned that it was first used way back in 2015.

So … I searched back through my archives … and sure enough there lurked my green-filtered photo of a rather fun item I’d been sent for one of my “Toy Reviews” which I was doing quite regularly at that time.

Goodness knows why I chose green as my colour choice back then … it’s never been a colour I’ve particularly liked.

But … RED … now that’s a colour far more to my liking!!!

To visit more fun colours at this week’s Sinful Sunday click on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Beach Mat Press-ups #boobday 369

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“What do you mean you’ve lost count?” I exclaimed to Hubby on the beach last summer.

“I’m doing all the exertion … all I asked you to do was tell me each time I get to ten!!!” I hissed at him as I collapsed down onto the mat. “And NO I’m not going to start all over again!!!”

But I secretly wasn’t too angry as I was already getting rather hot and sweaty though we’d only unpacked our things a few minutes earlier. So … instead I made him do some exertion-in-the sun of his own … by running all the way back down the beach for my first cold drink of the day!

Anyway … do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own #boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

P.s. Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my almost 370 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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“My Cougar Moment” Part 5 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

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My newest short Audio Reading … from “My Cougar Moment” Part Five of my Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries … is now available to listen to from my Audio Profile page, as well as directly from my “Modesty Speaks” pages >here<.

And don’t forget, the E-book version of “My Cougar Moment” is now also available at my Gumroad PDF Ebooks profile >here<. And I’m hoping to add the remaining editions of my Diaries in the coming weeks as soon as I can …

“My Cougar Moment”

Normally when Hubby and I have a night out at our Swingers Club we will spend the first hour or so sitting at the Bar chatting to staff … or to other couples, or singles, that we have met previously.

And by “met” I don’t necessarily mean people that we have actually played with before … many of our swingers friends are just that … friends that we have met there. People who share the same views and experiences as we do.

The atmosphere is always very friendly and relaxed … and it is really just very nice to unwind in a different and far more exciting environment than we would on a normal evening out with our normal friends.

And, of course, I love being able to wear something sexy and naughty. And Hubby enjoys me dressing like that and sitting, or standing at my side … or watching me take an occasional stroll away from the bar to investigate what may be happening in the play areas … or the viewing rooms … and then slowly strolling back. “Strutting my stuff” … as he calls it …

There have been occasions when we’ve not met or played with anyone at all during the evening. Or perhaps we may have just chatted and exchanged numbers with a couple, or interesting single guy, but that for one reason or another we’d not indulged with any further.

But on our most recent visit, I did something I’d never, ever done before … and it turned into one of the most amazingly exciting evenings we’ve ever enjoyed there.

We’d arrived early and had been sitting at the bar on our own, sipping our drinks and chatting to one of the lovely barmaids, when a simply gorgeous young man entered from reception and came up to the bar to order a drink. He wasn’t close enough for us to hear him ordering … but our eyes met briefly as he glanced around the bar whilst he waited for his glass.

As he walked off towards the main room I saw him glance briefly back in our direction, before he disappeared around the corner. Our barmaid came back to roll her eyes and tell me “Wow. He’s so hot!”.

I nodded my agreement and asked her where she thought he was from and if she’d seen him here before. She told me he was definitely a newbie and possibly Spanish or Italian.

A few minutes later he’d returned to the main room and was standing by the wall on the opposite side of the room to us. “God he is gorgeous isn’t he” I giggled to our barmaid. Hubby put his arm around my shoulder to pull me closer and whispered into my ear “why don’t you go and introduce yourself and offer to show him around.” I giggled with nervous excitement at his suggestion and replied, “I can’t, I wouldn’t know what to say.”

Usually, couples or singles would approach us first and we’d chat … sometimes for quite awhile … before I would nod to Hubby that I was “interested.” And then it would be him that would make the “suggestion” to our new “friends”, if they hadn’t already asked us first.

But now … not only was Hubby suggesting that I make the first move … he was suggesting that I do it on my own!!!

My heart was racing 90-to-the-dozen and I felt my excitement levels rising by the second. … “Go on, you’ve got nothing to lose. Talk to him before someone else gets in first,” Hubby was urging in my ear.

I got down off my stool and started to walk slowly over towards him …


You can listen to me reading the above excerpt from my Soundcloud Audio profile >here<.

So … I hope you’ve enjoyed this first excerpt from “My Cougar Moment” … and if you would like to hear me reading more from one of my Diaries … please do check back here soon at my Modesty Ablaze Hotwife Diaries pages.

Click here to download, and read the rest of “My Cougar Moment” … and do let me know if you have any questions about the download process, or about Kindle and Ebook-readers compatibility.

The other editions of my “personal diaries” are listed on my Ebooks page, and I’m hoping to have been able to upload more audio readings to myModCastaudio page soon as well.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. As with all of my Hotwife Diaries, the cover photo above was taken by the lovely John Tisbury.

Xxx – K

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Modest Defences #sinfulsunday

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A few days after my Modest Livestock post last Sunday I had an absolutely lovely message from Sally, a longtime follower with whom I’d lost contact after my “retirement” early in 2023.

So this weekends Sinful Sunday is especially for Sally, from the same afternoon stroll as that Livestock encounter … at one of the many coastal defences just a mile or so further along the coast from where we have strolled before on a much warmer, and sunnier, day earlier this year.

To visit more fun exposures at this week’s Sinful Sunday click on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Full Denim Jacket #boobday 368

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I’m delighted to welcome back the wonderfully lovely SheLover to this week’s #boobday Friday posting.

She has, of course, featured in lots and lots of my #boobday Friday’s previously … just click on the blue-links in this paragraph to re-view … and I’m sure will be featuring in many more to come!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

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Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Elust 179 – November 2024

Elust 179 Cover Image

Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond.

I am so thrilled to have my recentA Naughty Surpriseposting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world.

So … Welcome to Elust 179


Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines

Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Cub, Luc listens in

Lexi Rose, The Message: A Short Erotic Story – Part 1

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams, The Bivius Alien Dildo by Uberrime

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Black Fantasy Dildo

Liz X, Kiiroo Pearl 3 Vibrator Review: Remote Play & Video Sync Make It Unstoppable

Sex Toy DB, The Top 5 Squirting Dildos in 2024 to Simulate Ejaculation

Of Sex and Love, Heidi

Erotic Non Fiction

Awakening Your Inner Essence, A Tantric Perspective on Reclaiming Our Inner Worth

Kristina J, Humiliation To Liberation: A Dance Of Desire – 10 Years Of Submission

barefoot sub, Dancing In The Dark

Femina Viva, Managing the “feels” when visiting a companion

Modesty Ablaze, “A Naughty Surprise” Part 4 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

Sex Work

Carman Fox, Master Escort Communication

Thornhill Digital, The Future of Labour Rights Within Online Sex Work

Elizabeth, Torture Goddess

Sex Worker Search, Sex Worker Blogs via RSS Feed

Oz Bigdownunder, Oz in Dubai. Australian Halal Sausage is Back on the Menu

Books and Movies

The History of BDSM, The People’s Porn: A History of Handmade Pornography in America, by Lisa Z. Sigel

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides, When One Door Closes, Meditation Begins


Awakening Your Inner Essence, Barefoot Sub, Carman Fox, Countess Diamond, Elizabeth, Femina Viva, Fern River Cub, Kristina J, Lexi Rose, Liz X, Modesty Ablaze, Morgan Destera, Of Sex and Love, Oz Bigdownunder, Pleasure Me Now, Ramone Quides, Sex Toy DB, Sex Worker Search, Sydney Screams, Tantric Sexual Healing, The History of BDSM, Thornhill Digital


Elust Sex Blogs

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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Modest Livestock #sinfulsunday

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“Go on then” I smirked, as we paused our afternoon stroll along the coastal path, “I know you’re dying to tell me what your guidebook says”.

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“Well it says they’re not just ‘cows’” Hubby replied triumphantly. “They’re actually ‘Shetland Cattle’ which have been introduced to the peninsula here, especially to help with the Nature Reserve’s land-management plan”.
“They help with meadow conservation and scrub and bramble control because they’re a really hardy breed, used to living in exposed locations with low-quality grazing”, he continued.

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“And that nearest brown and white one” he carried on, “is the bull called ‘Arwell’ who’s recently sired some new calves which the Reserve is really excited about”.

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“Well … don’t you start getting ideas and ‘excited’ yourself …” I told him. “You’ve had me standing here so long the sun’s gone down, and I’m getting cold now! And … it’s still a long walk back to the car park!!!”.

But I must admit it was a lovely walk, and I’m very happy to be able to add it to the “Livestock” category at my #naughtyscavengerhunt pages >here< … which I’ve just this morning reminded Hubby he has still to catch-up on repairing some of the broken links lost in our 2022 breakdown.

But in the meantime, I’m sure you’ll be able to discover lots of other exposures at this week’s Sinful Sunday by clicking on the lovely sexy lips below!

Sinful Sunday
Modesty Ablaze at the #naughtyscavengerhunt

Modesty Ablaze Expose Vu

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Pour Me A Glass Members – Mid-November 2024 #PMAGW Update

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Goodness, it’s the middle of November already … aren’t the weeks just flying by???

But … that means that it’s time for my mid-month Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members update.

And it was so flattering to receive so many lovely messages about my “Holiday Cocktails” video from the beginning of the month. So I thought it only right and proper to post the Finale of that wonderfully tasty cocktail-mixing fun from our holiday apartment.

Followed by … Part Two of my “Mistresses Stocks” dominatrix session from my FemDom Dungeon Archives, which features more cock-teasing fun of a completely different nature from one of my favourite London Dungeons.

And, I have lots more similar videos from my Dungeon sessions, and of course, from my Candid Holiday Fun archives, so just let me know if you’d like to see more.

Or, perhaps you would prefer something from my Nude-in-Public, Me-Time Playtime, Body Worship … or Cigar Smoking Fetish adventures. Because, as I’ve mentioned here before, I have years and years worth of videos in my archives … AND … I always enjoy fulfilling members special requests whenever I can. So … the choice is yours … just ask !!!

And don’t forget your last chance to visit this month’s Photo Gallery which is for all of you who asked for more of my “Bodyworship” FemDom content.

Plus: My new Telegram Channel: – I also have a separate PMAG Telegram Members channel, where I am able to post even more personalised, and more frequent and “individualised” clips. So if you have the Telegram app on your phone or laptop, just let me know within the “Ask Me A Question” panel on the form at the foot of the Members page, and I will email more details of also joining me there. !!!

So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full. And I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.


If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

Xxx – K

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Modest Coffee Time #boobday 367

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Boobday Friday and Coffee is obviously a recurring theme for me … but you don’t mind that do you?

And at least today’s #boobday Friday posting does feature a different cup from previous offerings!!!!

Do let me know if you would like me to post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know from myContactpage if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, because I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here. I’m sure you’ll find it wonderfully empowering … and lots of lovely fun!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my over 360 BoobDays now,
you may >tweak me here<

Boobday Button

Xxx – K

P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

Xxx – K

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