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Modesty Ablaze “Pink Panty Playtime” #masturbationmay #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces Pink Panty Playtime

Re-published in May 2024, from my original post in 2019, as part of #MasturbationMay and MakeLoveNotPorn’s #metime #realworldsex celebration videos.

You probably won’t be surprised to learn that I receive quite a lot of “custom video” requests from my pages here at Modesty Ablaze dot com.

You also won’t be surprised that they are often quite naughty requests . . . occasionally too naughty even for me to contemplate.

But sometimes they stir my imagination . . . not always straight away on first reading . . . but perhaps weeks later a particular “request” will come to mind . . . usually on a Sunday afternoon when I am lounging in bed and suddenly feeling a little horny and in need of some quick “Me-Time”.

Well actually . . . it normally isn’t quick . . . because when I feel in the mood for some play-time fun I like to make it last as long as I can.

And it’s during those moments, that memories of those “request emails” pop back into my head . . . and as I lay back and start indulging . . . I usually find myself getting more and more excited . . . and more and more carried away with my thoughts and fantasies.

So on one such Sunday recently . . . I called Hubby upstairs and told him to get his camera ready.

I quickly searched in my drawer for a pair of Pink Panties . . . as “requested”
and popped down the hallway for a quick widdle, also as “requested” . . . telling him to have my favourite toys ready for when I returned.

Well, those pink panties didn’t stay on for very long . . . but this video certainly does . . . and you will just have to watch it to see what I mean!

You can view my introduction to “Pink Panty Playtime” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

Modesty Ablaze Pink Panty Playtime

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<.

“Pink Panty Playtime”  is my 59th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled “Pink Panty Playtime” with tags such as:


So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my fifty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.

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Modest Sins #sinfulsunday

Modest Sinners Sand

Forgive me … for I may have sinned … at least in the view of some!

But I have not been led into temptation. I walk these sands free from evil,
free from trespass, free from coercion, free from guilt … only to wish that
same freedom, power, and glory, to all !!!

For lots more prayers and thoughts, sinful and otherwise, this weekend
just touch the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Pour Me Another … July 2020 #PMAGW

Used Lingerie and Beads

For my second Pour Me A Glass Members mid-month bonus video for July, I’ve decided to add a fun clip I filmed to fulfill an order from one of my “Used Lingerie” followers several years ago. As well as my Satin Teddy, this gentleman had also ordered one of my “used toys” and an accompanying play-time video.

Now as often happens, I did get quite carried away with things, so this video is just the beginning of what turned-out to be a much longer film than I’d originally intended. Which means, of course, there is more to possibly share for future updates, if I receive enough requests … so do let me know!

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not yet a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

And thank you once again for spoiling me here, and helping me to keep my glass full. I really do hope you will enjoy and have fun watching each of this month’s clips and photos.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – I’ve been reading my monthly newsletter out aloud for over a year now and lots of you have requested that I keep doing that, so if you are not growing tired of my voice, just click on the play arrow below.

Xxx – K

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Modestly Frilled #sinfulsunday #LiFE

Modesty Ablaze Frilled Red Knickers

I’m normally more for lace than frills. But I was thrilled with these frills when a gentleman friend gifted me them some time ago!

And as he reminded me of them recently, I thought it would be nice to model them again for him here this Sinful Sunday !!!

See who else is thrilling this Sinful weekend, by tapping the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

And why not add some sinful lingerie moments of your own at Violet’s lovely, luxurious, lustful meme below.

Lingerie is for everyone

Xxx – K

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A Modest Stockinged #Boobday Friday

I recently thought about wearing this lovely Bodystocking for my office
Xmas Party . . . but in the end felt it wasn’t quite appropriate.

However I’ve had so many messages for more photos that I thought it just
might be appropriate for Boobday Friday.

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K

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A Modest Xmas Stocking #sinfulsunday

I know it’s not quite Christmas yet but the office party is next week . . . so I’ve been spending a little time today trying to choose which outfit I should wear.

Perhaps I’ll find more inspiration from tapping the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Tips when Dating People from Hookup Websites

Tips When Dating People from Hookup Websites 1

You might be faced with a boring weekend and want to date someone temporarily. Temporary can mean one night stands or a date with someone for two days without the intention of marrying them. If so, then sites for hookups that are the best way to go.

These kinds of websites are for people who want a casual relationship. Hooking up with someone can be exciting, thrilling, and fun and these are just some of the things that these sites aim to give its members. Most of the registered users there are not into long-term relationships so there’s the possibility that you and your match on the site understand that a weekend of dating is just temporary and it is not meant to last.

When dating someone, it is important to clarify whether you are looking for a quick roll on the hay or someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. When you are on hookup websites and you already find your match, here are some of the things that you need to remember when setting up a date with them.

Things to Remember when Hooking Up with Someone

Be Upfront with your Intentions
A healthy hookup relationship involves two people who know the things that they are looking for. If they make it clear that they just want to mess around, they won’t worry about the awkward things that usually happen in the morning.

No Stories about Childhood
The whole point of one night stands is that the people involved should carefully guard their feelings. They can’t do that when one of them starts to tell about his or her childhood or other significant life events that happened to them. Hooking up with someone can mean knowing their names but not their entire life story.

Be Careful with Involving your Feelings
There are times when a hookup can lead to a second or a third one. You might feel that you have finally met someone whom you can marry because they are different from the others. But if it is not reciprocated, you can get hurt in the process. Prevent them from scheming or using your feelings against you. If someone you hooked up with does not feel the same way about you, they can manipulate the relationship to their advantage.

Keep your Secrets
Do not divulge your deep secrets to someone whom you’ve just met in online dating sites. Know more about online dating in this link here. Even if you think that you will never meet them ever again after this particular weekend, technology always finds a way of connecting you two. They might blackmail you or ask for money especially if you have a secret that you won’t want your family and friends to know.

Do Not Take Pictures
Unless you decide to become exclusive, do not take photos together and post in on social media. Your family and friends might get a different interpretation of things and you don’t want to be known as someone who has sex with a stranger during weekends. Pictures can be used as evidence and it can be damaging for you especially if you plan to settle in the near future.

Set Rules
It is important to set boundaries and rules. Let the other person know about the things that you want or don’t want to happen when you sleep with someone. You might want to bolt in the middle of the night when the other is still sleeping or you might want to exchange phone numbers and set another date to see each other. Either way, don’t get pissed off when your hookup partner will not show up the next time.

Be Open with Awkward Situations
Awkwardness can’t be avoided sometimes. If certain things make you uncomfortable such as someone threw up because of too much wine during the first date, let them know. They might fart while in bed or you might find that they are hooking up with someone else. These are all totally fine. Let them know in private and laugh it off so that you won’t get the awkward vibe with each other the next time that you are together.

Let them Know if they Turn You Off
There are times when you could not help feeling disgusted with a weird habit that someone might have. If this is your first date and you feel uncomfortable, let them know. Maybe their way of getting off is different from yours. It’s totally fine if you can be upfront that they can get what they need from another person but not from you.


If your current date did not meet your expectations, find another one. The good news is that there are a lot of adult dating sites that can spawn a network of hookers on your local area. Save yourself the headache of going into the local bars and finding a hot companion for the weekend. The sites work and before you know it, you can find yourself with a different partner every week.

As long as you know how to be safe and you establish your boundaries, hooking up with someone should never be a problem. Know at least the name of the person you are hooking up but protect your heart in the process as well. Even if your current partner does not meet your expectations, who knows, the other one may have marriage potential.

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE meeting new people . . . and it has certainly worked for me. LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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Boobs in Black #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Boobday Friday Dress

I received a new dress from one of my Wishlists last week . . . and it does feel rather lovely against my nipples when I first zip it on.
And, when I move about in it !!!

It also seems perfect for a Boobday Friday photo as well, don’t you think?

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K

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Modestly Matching #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Red Knickers

Favourite colour? Well that’s easy . . . Red of course!

But here’s something that lots of people won’t know. If I do actually have to wear any at all, I always make sure my knickers match my shoes.

I mean . . . one wouldn’t want to ever be found to be . . . un-coordinated !!!

For more “Shades of Red” this Wicked Wednesday, gently push
the rainbow-coloured button below.


Xxx- K

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Modest Holiday Panty Rituals

I don’t actually wear Panties on holiday . . . in fact for most of my vacation,
as you may have noticed . . . I don’t wear very much at all !!!

But there is, quite surprisingly, a wonderful shop in the main town which always seems to have an amazing collection of, very very cheap, sexy Panties.
I’m not sure how “authentic” some of the brand-labelling is, but they always seem nicely made, and fun to wear!

So, it has become a holiday ritual every year to journey into town to browse through the new range, and stock-up on supplies.

I immediately wash them, of course, before packing them away in my suitcase to bring home, because . . . one must always wash, and dry, new knickers before wearing for the first time, don’t you agree?

This weeks theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Authentic” . . . whilst over at Food For Thought Friday it is “Rituals” . . . and you can read more on both topics by clicking on the buttons below.


Xxx- K

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