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April 28, 2021 · 10:55 am

Modesty Ablaze “A Post-Session Wind Down” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "A Post-Session Wind Down" video at MakeLoveNotPorn

As some of you will already know, one of my most enjoyable “hobbies”, is my Mistress Modesty Sessioning fun. And I particularly enjoy administering some fun hand-spanking … or perhaps a light caning to the bottoms of my … always willing, spanking-submissives.

And quite often, I enjoy those sessions so much that I find myself becoming quite aroused and sometimes even really, really horny!!!

And that was certainly the case after my most recent spanking session when … having warmed and reddened my happy submissives bottom to his complete satisfaction … I just had to retire to my boudoir and lay back with my favourite Doxy Wand for some complete satisfaction of my own.

Now if you’ve viewed my Doxy Wand in action before … or if you have one of your own … you will know how quickly it can drive one over the edge.

And despite me trying to slow things down and tease myself along more slowly, it wasn’t very long before I completely lost control of my emotions.

You will just have to watch the full video to see exactly what I mean …

Modesty Ablaze and her Doxy Wand in "A Post-Session Wind Down" RealWorldSex video

So I hope you will enjoy my Post-Session Wind Down fun. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

You can view my introduction to “A Post-Session Wind Down” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Post-Session Wind Down”  is my 85th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“A Post-Session Wind Down” with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #clitastic #hotelroom #intense #joyful #kinky #loud #married #metime #playful #quickie #samsung #sensual #spirited #toytime #wand-erfull

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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April 24, 2021 · 4:45 pm

Modestly Strapping-in #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 1

“It’s so lovely to hear that you’ve missed me. And there’s simply no need to worry about being a little out of practice …”

Mistress Modesty Sinfully strapping in 2

“Because … I rather feel it’s a bit like riding a bike really. One just has to start slowly and build-up a gentle rhythm!”

To discover lots of others strapping-in and saddling-up this Sinful Sunday, just push gently on the lips below.

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Xxx – K

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April 23, 2021 · 9:58 am

Modestly Tipped #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Tipped at BoobDay Friday

Shall I ? … or shan’t I ? … wear a bra into the office today???

Well, the answer to that question always depends on what else I have chosen to wear … as I would never wish to cause any discomfort or embarrassment for other colleagues, or co-commuters, that I may encounter during the day!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 200 BoobDays now, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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April 16, 2021 · 10:50 am

Modest Grips #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday White Grips

You know what it’s like when working in front of a hot oven … one needs some protection to avoid burning one’s … finger-tips!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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April 14, 2021 · 10:30 am

Modesty on Courage #wickedwednesday

Mistress Modesty holding Chastity Cage

One of the most important, and certainly empowering, things that I have learnt from my Mistressing sessioning is to do with courage.

No … not about my courage … but instead about the courage of many of the people who have contacted, and subsequently, visited me over the past seven years.

Many people wrongly assume that the sort of person who wishes to visit a Female Dominatrix, is in some way abnormal or inferior to the rest of us … and by “rest of us” I mean what is always portrayed in general society as “normal people”.

But in my experience the majority of my visitors … and in the context of this post I don’t want to refer to them as “submissives” … are absolutely normal people, from absolutely normal, everyday backgrounds and walks-of-life.

And through the conversations, discussions, and of course the interactions that always occur around and throughout our meetings, it usually quite quickly becomes clear how much courage these people have needed to accept and acknowledge their desires and their wish to be a little bit “different”. Courage to be able to take that first step to discover themselves in a way that they really feel they can’t share with their immediate loved ones and family … or that would not be “acceptable” among their vocational colleagues, or organisations … because of the stigma and constraints that general society places on us all.

So during our meetings they can be, at least just for the two or three hours of our time together, who they really want to be. To release themselves from the “norms of the everyday” whilst recognising the need that we must all return to and uphold those norms so that others can decide their own paths, their own way, and in their own time. Naturally and equally as it should always be … for all of us.

That takes courage … and understanding … and acceptance.

For more thoughts on ‘Courage’ at this week’s Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the button below!

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Xxx- K

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April 9, 2021 · 10:56 am

Modest Droplets #BoobDay Friday

Modesty Ablaze Boobday Friday April 9th 2021

I do love a morning shower … just a few moments alone (usually!!!) with my thoughts … to start the day invigorated and refreshed for all that lies ahead.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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April 2, 2021 · 10:29 am

Modest Breakfast Bun #Boobday Friday

Modesty Ablaze Breakfast Bun

I can’t think of many things more enjoyable, on a sleepy Good Friday morning, than a Hot Cross Bun in bed.

Well perhaps one or two things … hopefully that will come when one has to clean-up the crumbs!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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March 30, 2021 · 2:00 pm

Modesty Ablaze “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Modesty Ablaze introduces "Me-Time Garage Quickie"

Welcome to the “Back Seat of my Car” … I’m sitting here because I want to tell you about my latest “Real World Sex” video at Make Love Not Porn.


“A Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” was actually filmed last summer … before our island-vacation … but with everything going on in the world at the time, I didn’t really think it was appropriate to upload it to my Make Love Not Porn pages at that particular moment.

But looking back through my archives these past few weeks I actually thought … well “why not ???” It was, after all, just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, indulgent fun. 
And that is simply what my videos are all about … just trying to have some enjoyable, sometimes silly, sometimes self-indulgent … but always for me at least, relieving “Real World” fun moments.

So I hope you will feel the same, and enjoy it too. And, I have literally hundreds of similar, indulgent Me-Time fun moments in my archives. So, if you would like to see more, just let me know !!!

Modesty Ablaze in the backseat of her car.

You can view my introduction to “Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage”  is my 84th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
“Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” with tags such as:

#afternoon #bisexual #blissful #clitastic #intense #intimate #joyful #married #metime #quickie #relaxing #sensual #toytime
#vanlife #wand-erful

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Eighty Four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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March 26, 2021 · 11:58 am

Modestly Steeled #Boobday Friday

Modest Boobday Stainless Steel Ring

I’m presently steeling myself against further delays and disappointments … wishing and praying that my favourite Chambers can re-open on schedule.

In the meantime this lovely Stainless Steel Ring and Restraint Bar I received for review recently has proved very useful in my morning workouts, as I try to rebuild the strength and co-ordination in my spanking arm and palms.

Oh, and of course, I do like the feel of steel brushing across my … bits!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Do join-in and add some Boobday celebrations of your own!!!

And . . . if you would like to see what has gone before, you may
>tweak me here<

Xxx – K

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March 24, 2021 · 10:05 am

Modest Exposure #4Thoughts_Fiction and #wickedwednesday

Modestly Exposed at 4Thoughts

Some of you may have seen my “Update March 2021” note on my OnlyFans page here recently, so the current prompt at 4 Thoughts of “Exposed” rings especially true at the moment, and I just couldn’t resist joining in.

And … as the current prompt at Wicked Wednesday just happens to be “Two Truths and a Lie” … I thought it would be fun to tease you with my answers to the Questions being asked below:


1) Have you exposed yourselves in word or picture and did you chose to do so, as an act of exhibitionism or subservience to another’s will, or perhaps as an act of self humiliation?


2) What was behind your act of exposure? Was it something you did of your own volition or were you told to do it?


3) How did it leave you feeling? Excited perhaps? Guilty? Horny or perhaps, sadly; in some way compromised?
?


And … my answers???


1) Yes, I have … just once or twice … exposed myself in some Nude In A Public Place exhibitionism pictures.


2) Yes … I’m ashamed to say … that on each occasion it was completely of my own volition.


3) It always leaves me feeling Excited, Guilty, Horny and … Compromised.

So … to play 
Marie’s Wicked Wednesday “Two Truths and a Lie” game … can you guess the Truths and Lies amongst my answers above???

For more ‘Exposures’ at 4 Thoughts … and ‘Truths and Lies’ at Wicked Wednesday … simply click on the buttons below!

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P.s.: There are some clues to my “Truths and Lies” answers above >here<
and >here< …

Xxx- K

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