In grey, damp January … my thoughts always turn to warmer, sunnier days. And usually to the thought of wishing I was back standing on my favourite, summer holiday, beach!!!
And this morning my thoughts have also turned to continuing with my homage to the wonderful “Corrupting Mrs Jones” blog page of “Thirty Dirty Questions” which can be found from her blog header bar >here<.
So … this morning’s post follows-on at the very end of the year with my own answers to questions 6 to 10 … having re-titled my own version as Fifty “Sexy” Questions rather than the “Dirty” connotation … because I’ve always wanted to push the view that sex is not “dirty”. I’d rather think of sex as just … “sexy”.
As I said then, I’m not sure how far-along I’ll get in keeping-up with my answers … but I thought it might be fun … and would certainly re-kindle some lovely memories.
So … here are my answers to Questions 11 to 15:
Question 11: Would you ever visit a sex therapist? What would be the reason and what do you think their advice would be for you?
I am grateful that I’ve never had the need to even think about visiting a therapist. So my answer to this question is definitely a “no”. However, as I’ve said in one of my earlier answers here, I do believe that “great sex always begins with great communication”. So if anyone should ever have doubts, or worries, or questions, in their mind about any aspect of their “private life”, then I think they certainly should seek professional help and guidance. (What’s that old saying? “A problem shared, is a problem solved!”
Question 12: Is there anything about sex that embarrasses you, causes shame or fear or makes you nervous? And what is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during sex?.
LOL !!! No, nothing about sex embarrasses me!
And whilst there are probably many embarrassing moments … I can’t remember any that caused anything more than just loud bursts of laughter … and a momentary pause before continuing!!!
Question 13: What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to?
We all have sexual dreams and fantasies don’t we. And if not, then you absolutely should … because I always have, since as long as I can remember. And although in my earlier pre-teen days I know I felt guilty and ashamed about those fantasies, meeting Hubby when I did, soon allowed me to release and let-go of that shame and guilt. And begin this amazing journey!!!
And as to what kinds of things I am drawn to … well all kinds obviously!!! Depending on the circumstances, and my mood at the time … and as long as it’s always entirely (and obviously) completely consensual … then I’ve always enjoyed exploring almost everything in the sexual and kink spectrum.
Question 14: If you were to create a sexy playlist intended for a hot date at home, what would be on it?
Again it depends on the circumstances … and my mood at the time … and the person, or persons, involved.
And to be honest, once I begin to immerse myself, and get “lost-in-the-moment(s)”, the background noise and environment always gets lost and muted, and definitely becomes the last thing on my mind.
Question 15: Have you ever kissed someone of the same sex?
Oh, yes, on many, many occasions.
The first occurred quite spontaneously sitting at the bar of our favourite Swingers Club, talking with the lovely, lovely chaperone who always greeted “newbies” and showed them around the club, and explained the rules and “etiquette” of how to conduct oneself and what to do should either of us feel uncomfortable.
We became very friendly with this lovely lady, and as we soon became regulars (every Saturday night in those first few months lol !!!), and were normally among the first couples to arrive (the club was very, very local to us!!!), we would always sit and chat until it became busier and she would begin doing her “meet and greet”. And on probably, our third or fourth visit, as we were sat at the bar, she began gently stroking my forearm and then just lent forward and began giving me the most wonderfully passionate kiss.
I’d never kissed a woman before, certainly not in that way, and it was just the most deliciously soft and wonderful … and dizzying … experience. Then she stopped, and without a word, stepped down and led me round into the main playroom … where we just continued!!!
Needless to say, Hubby followed to sit across the room and watch … and told me it was one of the most sexually arousing things he’d ever seen or felt.
As it certainly was for me as well.
And as you can imagine, it certainly wasn’t the last!!!
So … if you’ve read this far … perhaps you would like me to continue? Let me know your own thoughts … and opinions. Because, I do truly believe that “great or awesome” anything comes from great or awesome communication.
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
Xxx – K
