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Modest Tease & Denial … #sinfulsunday

Modest Tease and Denial Sinful Sunday

“So let’s just see shall we. It could be double-the-pleasure couldn’t it!!!”

For lot’s more Teasing Pleasure this Sinful Sunday just squeeze and pinch the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modest Motion … #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Motion Blur

“You know how you said our sessions seem to just race by in a blur? Well, today I thought we’d spend the whole hour just in this position … and just with this particular paddle”.

“Then perhaps you might remember every stroke and every word … don’t you think! Shall we try?”

This week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is all about Motion Blur … for more clarity just swipe the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Marking #KOTW

For years and years marking was something that would never have entered my head during my playtime fun with Hubby . . . or any of my other lovers.

In fact as I tend to bruise quite easily, I would always be horrified at picking up even the slightest of bruising or scratching.

But since I began experimenting and developing my more “kinky” hobby four or five years ago, that has all changed. Not from the point of view of being marked
. . . but, instead, to being the “marker”.

Now initially when I began my Mistressing I would always be careful to restrict my disciplining fun to hand-spanking or perhaps using soft floggers and paddles that would only blush or temporarily redden my gentlemen’s bottoms and backs. I had neither the experience, nor the inclination, to mark them further. And anyway, my earliest gentlemen “friends” mostly seemed to be very anxious not to have any noticeable markings after leaving my chambers. (Probably for obvious reasons, but which it is never my place to ask about).

I quickly came to enjoy administering my hand-spanking sessions more and more, and soon had many gentlemen returning for “more of the same please Mistress”. It was some months though before I had my first request for a
“severe caning”.

Caning is something, if you’ll excuse the pun, not to be taken lightly, and requires practice and care . . . both for the recipient, and also for the canes themselves. (I always use my own to ensure they are properly cleaned after use).

So I approached my first such sessions with some degree of nervousness and caution, explaining that “severe” was open to interpretation and should be undertaken with gradual progression.

Since those early days however, as with my hand-spanking, I have grown to enjoy those special requests more and more.

Because if a gentleman asks and clearly really, really does desire to leave with my marks imprinted for a day, or several days, across his cheeks . . . then I take that as a compliment. A sign of his fulfilment and enjoyment of our time together.

And, I must confess, I now really do love receiving selfies from my gentlemen during the course of the following day, (or several days), of the progression and healing, of those welts and bruises.

So from my point of view, I’m definitely a “mark-er” and not a “receiver”.

For many other interesting views on “Marking” just spank
the KOTW lips below.

Kink of the Week

Xxx- K

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Boobs in Black #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Boobday Friday Dress

I received a new dress from one of my Wishlists last week . . . and it does feel rather lovely against my nipples when I first zip it on.
And, when I move about in it !!!

It also seems perfect for a Boobday Friday photo as well, don’t you think?

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modest Knots #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Knots

Forgive me for I have sinned . . . by being very late for Sinful Sunday this week . . . but I have been rather tied-up in knots you see.

Not tied-up myself . . . because I was the one doing the tie-ing . . . but I rather like the result!!!

Anyway . . . now that I am back . . . I shall be catching-up with all the other marks, knots and burns at this week’s Sinful Sunday by tapping
the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tapping #Boobday Friday

Mistress Modesty Tapping

It often gets quite stuffy in one’s Dungeon during a session . . . especially
when I’m giving a prolonged “tapping” . . . so I find it’s always important to
have adequate ventilation.

And this is one of my favourite outfits, which this rather excited gentleman suggested I should share for a Boobday post.
I don’t often follow the advice of one of my submissives, but on this occasion . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and
every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Pressing #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Press Up 1

“That only makes ten . . . I didn’t give-up my Saturday evening for just ten!!!
I want at least forty more !!!”

Mistress Modesty Press Up 2

“I didn’t say you could get up . . . that’s only thirty more . . . I said you had
to get to fifty !!!”

Mistress Modesty Press Up 3

“Well they don’t feel too tender to me. They feel nice and firm actually!”

Mistress Modesty Press Up 4

“Perhaps that pinching-feeling you’re complaining about, is because the
screws are too loose!”

Mistress Modesty Press Up 5

“Yes, that’s it, I think these nuts definitely need to be much tighter . . . Now get back down there, you’ve still got ten to go !!!”

For more “Exercising” this Sinful Sunday, just push-up on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Communicating @F4TFriday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Bottom Licker

“Further and faster . . . I thought you said you knew how to please !!!”

In my view, communication should always be a “two way thing”. On the one hand, clear and concise instruction . . . and on the other hand, clear and concise acknowledgement


For more tips and advice on Good Communication Habits, visit this week’s F4TF by . . . licking . . . the F4TF play-button below!

#F4TFriday


Xxx- K

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Modest Appointments #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty London Dominatrix flogging

It’s been a frantic, busy, busy week. But what better way to soothe one’s tensions than a nice, calming, Saturday afternoon workout!

And I have another appointment this afternoon . . . so won’t get back to my normal Sunday reading until very late this evening.

But I’m positive there will be many more fun and calming images to be found at
this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently flogging the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Read #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Big Penis Book2

“You’re late!” I growled to Sub T as he scrambled into the chambers mumbling apologies and excuses. “I’ve had to sit here entertaining myself browsing through the bookshelf”.

“Now get over here and let’s see how you measure up with some of these!”

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Big Penis 3

“Mmm . . . well perhaps I can work with that . . . but you’ll have to learn that I never tolerate lateness.”

“So let’s just see if you’re still so confident after I’ve got my slapper out . . . and of course . . . if you can take my own Big Penis !!!”

And if you slap the Sinful Sunday lips below, I’m sure there will lot’s more confidence on show!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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