I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .
. . . to the moment I leave !!!
. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!
See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!
Xxx – K
Filed under 3 somes, Hotwives, Sinful Sunday, Swinging, womens Erotica
And, tell me . . . how much time did you say we had ???
There is bound to be more Sinful beginnings, middles . . . and ends, to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!
Xxx – K
Filed under Mistress Modesty Ablaze, Sinful Sunday
It has been such a sinfully busy week . . . well two weeks actually . . . and yes,
the evidence will possibly be posted here soon-ish. LOL!
And I am just rushing out again this morning for more!!!
But I thought I would pause to show you the modest jewels I have just put on for my journey. I’m sure they will be appreciated . . . and sinfully removed . . . later on this afternoon!!!
And I am also sure that you will be able to appreciate lots and lots more
sinful toys and accessories at this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently
touching the lips below!
Xxx – K
It’s always nice to discover new people and new organisations entering the Fetish market-place, particularly so when the company concerned is female-focussed, female run and female staffed!!! So I was delighted to hear about Pink B.O.B. and the fledgling Kink-side of their business, Masterkink . . . after-all, we all have a kink-side don’t we? (Well I know I do !!!).
Pink B.O.B. is a small, but growing company based in New Hampshire in the USA (close-ish to the bottom of the state line with Massachusetts, so not too far from Boston). The B.O.B. part of the Pink name stands for Battery Operated Boyfriend which always makes me smile warmly when I repeat it to myself as I’m sure we’d all like our “boyfriends” to be battery-operated from time to time!
But Pink B.O.B. has so much more than just battery-operated toys in their growing product range and I really do recommend my American readers especially, to visit their website as I think all of their products are extremely reasonably priced.
Earlier this year I reviewed their “Flexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy” and am currently having their vibrating cock-ring “road-tested” for me by one of my trusted “colleagues” . . . but for the purpose of this post I am especially excited to focus on two items from their Master Kink range. Two separate items which can, of course, be used together if the mood should take you . . . as it often does for me!
Firstly the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag . . .
Now, I do quite frequently come across this item hanging from the “utensils” rack at various dungeons I use for my mistress sessions. But I have always been reticent to “re-use” them with my own companion(s) at the time. Almost all of the “toys” I use, or play with, during my own sessions, are my own. Items I have collected myself for home playtime with my No.1 submissive . . . because playtime fun always starts at home!
So I was thrilled to receive the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag in the post . . . though I did see an immediate look of apprehension in No.1’s eyes as I unpacked it and dangled it before him.
But I’m happy to report that he soon felt better when I passed it to him to look at, and feel, for himself. I think because the ball itself has 10 small breathing holes, and being made from an ABS Plastic type material, it is actually quite light and smooth. (Unlike some of the harder rubber and wooden balls we’d come across in our “travels”). The leatherette-type straps are quite light as well, and also reasonably flexible . . . so he felt that perhaps it wouldn’t be quite so restrictive after all . . . and soon succumbed to my command (see below!).
The ball itself is approximately 2 inches in diameter and slides along a short (4”), thin strap which slots through the ball itself. This strap is then attached via light D-ring connectors to the main strap. Made from a patent-leather type material, the buckle end is almost six inches long, whilst the strap-end (with 9 holes for the fixing) is just over double that length. That means the ball gag and strap has an adjustable fit of between 14” to 21”.
The strap is 1” wide and approximately 4mm thick and . . . according to No.1 . . . is quite comfortable once attached. Although, of course . . . I am the one to do the attaching . . . I did briefly try it on myself (for the purpose of this review only of course!) and he is right, I found it quite easy to breath and experienced no unpleasant taste or discomfort.
But, as I said, I am the one to do the attaching, and I have now done so on several occasions at home . . . and also quite recently with another of my subs, in-session.
Which brings me to the very necessary subject of cleaning! Because, although the Master Kink Breathable Ball-Gag is very nicely packaged in a quite strong and stylish shiny-gloss box, there is very little product information on the box itself . . . and nothing about the best method of cleaning (the ball particularly). I always clean all my toys with anti-bacterial wipes, and hot soapy water, both before and after use and, so far at least, that has had no discernible negative impact on the ball itself. But I would have liked a little more specific information on that aspect.
However, that aside, this Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag is proving to be a wonderful and fun addition to my kink-box. And, if you are just beginning to explore some kinky fun at home . . . or even if, like me, you are expanding your horizons in your journey through Kink . . . I think this is an ideal starting point.
As is . . . The Master Kink Bondage Rope.
If you have been visiting me here for some time, you will know how much I love rope play. Not actually doing the binding, or rigging itself, but . . . for the times when I switch roles and allow myself to be bound and played with.
This doesn’t happen very often of course . . . I have to be in the right sort of mood . . . and then only with my “very” good friend and rope expert Lover No.14.
But I just love the feel of rope being wound closely, and tightly, around my naked body. There is something so sensual and arousing about that total sense of submission to the will of someone you completely trust! As I say, it doesn’t happen very often, but when it does happen next, I will definitely be requesting this soft and sensual cotton rope to be the first thing wrapping around me.
It is almost 33ft in length and quite soft to the touch . . . so once again . . . perfect for beginning one’s experimentation with rope and bondage play. I’ve only played briefly with it once so far . . . and not yet with Lover No.14. But we do have a meeting planned very soon, so I shall be reporting back to you here, on just how The Master Kink Bondage Rope actually feels in practice!!!
So, as I said at the beginning of this post, I do so love discovering new people . . . and new companies . . . and I certainly do recommend you follow my links below and discover more about Pink B.O.B. and Master Kink for yourself!!!:
The Breathable Ball Gag:
Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
Pros: Tactile feel. Air-holes for safe use and reasonably comfortable and easy to attach . . . and detach!!
Cons: None to report just yet.
Ball Material: ABS Plastic.
Strap Material: Leatherette/Patent Leather and Nickel Free Metal D-rings.
Measurements: Ball Diameter 2 inches; Strap Width 1 inch, Buckle and Strap adjusts to fit between 14 to 21 inches.
Noise: Allows just the occasional wimper or squeal!!!
Colour: Black.
Batteries: None for the Ball Gag, but you may need some for your other toys once the strap is in place!
Waterproof: Probably, but do not submerge with your submissive attached!!!
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use. (I use anti-bacterial wipes as well!).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!The Master Kink Bondage Rope:
Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10 (though yet to be tested fully).
Pros: Soft and just the right thickness for beginners-play!
Cons: Yet to be tested fully.
Material: Cotton.
Measurements: Length 33 feet; Diameter 1/3 inch.
Colour: Black.
After-care: Machine washable (in mesh laundry bag).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Bondage Rope
The Modesty Video Review: I think there may be one coming within the next month! LOL!!!
Additional links: Pink B.O.B. at Twitter ; Pink B.O.B at Instagram . . . and I also do recommend you browse the lovely Pink B.O.B. blog pages for Helpful Hints, Tips and Tricks, and How-To-Guides!!!
The Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag and Bondage Rope were sent to me, free-of-charge, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
Last week I mentioned in my Fantasy Bulletin No.1, that I would keep on at you about Valentine’s Day! So this is Bulletin No.2 to remind you to take advantage of a wonderful opportunity to give a little love to that person (or persons!) that have a special place in your life . . . or perhaps the person(s) you would like to have a special place in your life.
It’s the perfect time to be able to use a little imagination and perhaps suggest something different, or “spicy” for your relationship, that you might ordinarily feel a little awkward or shy about.
After all, Valentine’s is normally considered by most people to be fun and frivolous . . . extravagant and silly . . . racy and sexy! Just the ideal excuse to say “well it is Valentine’s, it is just a bit of fun!” even if that red latex cat-suit, or those fur-lined bondage handcuffs . . . or red riding crop . . . is something you’ve actually always wanted to try!!!
And just to help guide you in the right direction . . . and encourage you to be just a little Valentine’s-outrageous and fun-naughty . . . I highly recommend that you browse my favourite first-stop-shops for all things fun, fetish and sexy, below.
So in no particular order, something for the weekend sir or madam?
From Belle De Soir . . . a wonderful selection of both sexy silky lingerie and super sexy toys at some of the most reasonable prices I think you’ll find all across the world-wide web.
I just love their Gracya range of Corsets, Thongs and Suspender Belts
Or to set your evening really throbbing, why not try my favourite Doxy Wand Massager or, if you’re feeling even more adventurous the new Doxy Skittle!!!
And, if you use the Val5off Discount Code before February 15th, you’ll be able to claim a 5% reduction on most of the lovely items throughout their shop.
Or . . . if latex and lace, or pvc and pleasure is more what you have in mind . . . then Honour Clothing is a must visit on your Valentinian travels!
Because they have some of the most lovely creations that I have ever slid myself into.
Including the Glamour Corselette which you may have seen on these very pages before, or how about the simply fabulous Chimera Basque which always brings me lots and lots of compliments whenever I wear it out and about.
I have a wardrobe full of Honour, from basques to boots and bras to blindfolds . . . and everything feels so stylish and so, so sexily naughty!!!
And speaking of naughty . . . then if you really, really want to try something really, really naughty and really, really kinky . . . then you must stop by Uberkinky.
Because as they say . . . for them “It’s Not a Fetish, it’s a Way of Life” and trust me they really mean it!!!
If you’ve visited me here often . . . or perhaps visited me in person LOL!!! . . . then you will have seen lots and lots of Uberkinky items.
So if this Valentine’s you’d like to add some real kink to your relationship, from Bondage Wear to Bondage Gear, from Collars to Cock Rings, from Vibrators for her to Vibrators for him, from Front to Rear . . . Uberkinky is truly out there!!!
Or, if I’ve left you feeling that all of the above is perhaps just little extreme . . . and you would prefer something a little more mainstream . . . may I suggest the largest online shop of all.
Because at Lovehoney you simply can’t go wrong . . . there is something within for everyone. And, I have to say, that whilst they may not seem as “specialised”, or “bespoke” to the naked eye as the shops I’ve mentioned above, in terms of service and delivery, they are second to none.
As I’m sure you will discover as you begin browsing their aisles, their product range just goes on for miles and miles.
There is something for every taste and every desire . . . with lots of little helpful reviews and extensive product details for every item that sparks your interest.
And, speaking of sparks, if you can’t start making some sparks of your own from the options above, I shall be very disappointed!
I’m expecting you to report back!!!
But in the meantime . . . until Bulletin No.3 . . . bye, bye for now!!!
Xxx – K
I’ve had several requests during the past week for more photos of my Sinful Sunday Basque . . . so I thought that perhaps I should share it here at Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday page as well . . . where:
Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.
All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.
I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!
Xxx – K
Filed under #boobday, Mistress Modesty Ablaze, womens Erotica
Christmas is always a busy time for everybody . . . and for some people can often be a stressful time as well.
So my motto . . . in everything!!! . . . is just to TRY to make it FUN.
And I’d sincerely like to wish you all, lots of Kisses, lots of Giggles, lots of LOVE
. . . and lots and lots of FUN during this Christmas week!!!
Oh, and . . . hopefully . . . a little bit of Sinfulness as well!!!
And if you’re feeling stressed and need some alternative cheer . . . I’m sure you’ll find some, from giving great big kisses to the lips below!
Wishing you all a Loving, Merry . . . and FUN . . . Christmas!!!
Xxx – K
Filed under Latex & Lace, Sexual liberation, Sinful Sunday, womens Erotica
Laying the table for the final #mistressmodestyablaze session of the month
. . . and a very sinful session it was too.
And if you . . . gently and responsibly please . . . smack the lips below, I’m sure you will discover lots more sinful sessions this Sunday!!!
Xxx – K
One can never have too many Paddles . . . so I am always looking for new shapes and sizes . . . and new additions to my collection!
And I am delighted to say that the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle which arrived recently from my favourite Fetish Shop Uberkinky has quickly become my current favourite!!!
Now it looks just like a ping-pong or table-tennis bat doesn’t it . . . but let me tell you it is so, so much more stylish-looking and, of course, far more useful!!!
It is made of black-leather with four lovely silver studs connecting the circular paddle itself to the handle. Don’t worry, the studs are closed on both sides so it is perfectly safe to use without fear of scratching or scraping with bare, unprotected bits of metal! (Yes, yes, I KNOW some of you actually like that don’t you!!!)
But anyway . . . as I was saying . . . those silver studs attach the paddle to the strong, re-inforced handle. It is easy to grip, and easy to hold and even during quite forceful, and pro-longed spanking, I find it extremely comfortable to use. The handle is 7 inches long and one-and-a-half inches deep to hold in the palm of one’s hand and, as I say, very comfortable to use . . . certainly more comfortable than my Leather Slapper Paddle (which I still, never-the-less, LOVE by-the-way!!!).
But it is the paddle itself which is the part of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle that I really, really love. It is made from a stiff, very slightly textured leather. And although I’m describing it as being “stiff” (about 5mm in thickness), it does have a wonderful “give and springyness” on impact that both I, and the subs I have so far used the Paddle on, really enjoy. And with it’s lovely shape and diameter of five-and-a-half inches, the paddle leaves a gorgeously consistent rosey-red blush.
And it is that lovely shape that makes it so wonderful to use. The light weight of the paddle and it’s perfect size, just gives one so much control, both in the intensity of the impact and, more delightfully, in one’s aim. Because, unlike some of my other larger or heavier paddles, I have been able to use this Fetish Fantasy Paddle with quite a wide variety of spanking positions, techniques . . . and places of impact.
Such as??? Well, apart from the obvious . . . those lovely bum cheeks that look so spankable when bending my sub over my knee . . . I’ve found this paddle delightfully useful when grabbing a subs balls and twisting them round to present themselves as an inviting, pouting, package for some nice ball-spanking.
Or . . . pulling and stretching his cock to present his bobbling head for some fun swiping with short, sharp, swats until he can take no more.
Or . . . strapping him down onto his stomach across my bench, completely ignoring his bottom and instead smacking the soles of his feet with fast-fast-slow smacks . . . from one foot to the other, and then back again.
Or . . . making him kneel, blindfolded of course, at my feet . . . instructing him to hold the palm of one hand flat out in front of his body and the other reaching backwards behind him, whilst I walk slowly around him alternating my smacks from one palm to the other . . . with increasingly regular, and evermore intense, whacks across his bum cheeks.
Now, normally, I would use my paddles as a prelude . . . a warming-up toy . . . just to begin a spanking session, with my more “intense” canes or whips to follow. But, actually I’ve found that I’ve been able to use my Fetish Fantasy Paddle with such variety that, on a number of occasions recently, it’s been perfect to use throughout a whole impact session without the need for any other implements at all.
It may not be sufficient for subs who enjoy more extreme forms of punishment, but for me a successful session is one where both participants feel the fun and satisfaction . . . and in that respect the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle has been just perfect for me!
Oh, and to make it even more perfect for me, I just have to mention the string looped through the end of the handle which makes it so easy to tidily hang-away in my wardrobe after use . . . though I somehow think it won’t be hanging there for more than a few days at a time!!!
Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Comfortable and easy to hold and use. Lightweight, flexible but firm . . . makes a lovely slapping noise on impact.
Cons: I honestly can’t think of any cons whatsoever!!!
Material: Leather.
Length: From tip-to-tip (bottom of handle to top of the paddle) 13 inches.
Width (Diameter of the paddle): 5.5 inches and 5mm thick.
Handle: 7 inches long, 1.5 inches wide and 8mm thick (grip).
Vibration: A reverberating slapping on contact.
Lubrication: Not required.
Noise: Wonderful slapping sound on impact.
Available Colours: black.
Waterproof: Not for use in the bath or shower.
After-care: Wipe thoroughly with cleaning cloth after use.
Supplier Product Link: Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle
Additional Useful Link: BDSM Paddles
Twitter feed: @UberKinky
I haven’t had the time . . . or a willing volunteer just yet (hint, hint!!!) . . . to produce a Video Review of the Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle, but you can watch several Video Reviews of some of my previous fun Spanking and Bondage Uberkinky items by clicking the title screen above!
The Fetish Fantasy Designer Paddle was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
Xxx – K
If you’ve joined me here before you will know how impressed I always am with the Fetish Wear and Impact and Bondage items I have ordered from my favourite fetish store, Uberkinky.
And . . . of course . . . if you have joined me at one of my dungeon sessions over the past year, you will have no-doubt experienced some of those Impact and Bondage items at first-hand! LOL!!!
And . . . you are sure to have told me just how much you enjoyed the experience!!!
In my view Uberkinky – “it’s not a fetish it’s a way of life” – offers simply the best quality, and best customer service of any of the (numerous) on-line suppliers I have dealt with over the past few years.
Their products are always well made, packaged tidily and discreetly, and delivered quickly.
AND . . . as you will have no doubt gathered from my post title . . . they are currently offering some exciting savings on their already wonderfully reasonable prices.
AND . . . are also offering FREE Royal Mail 24 delivery when you order items over £20 in total.
I can’t recommend Uberkinky enough and I encourage you . . . no, actually COMMAND you . . . to visit them now, quickly and without fail!!!
There is more information on some of their most popular categories from the links in this post . . . and, of course . . . if you’d like to invite me to join you in trying them out, you just simply have to ask and I will consult my dungeon-diary!!!
Have fun . . . Kinky fun . . . at Uberkinky.
And if you’d like to read more about my thoughts on some of the items I, along with some of my submissives, have recently “tested” . . . you can do so by clicking the images below.
Thanks and kisses to Vinylman1 for my “Mistress Modesty Ablaze Table” picture above.
Xxx – Mistress Modesty Ablaze
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