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5 Things You Need to Know before You Get into Swinging

5 Things you need to know before you get into swinging

Most couples, especially men and women who have been together for a long time, are always looking for new ways to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom. Sex with another couple, better known as swinging, provides them with a chance to do exactly that. And while having sex with another couple can be rather exciting, finding the right people for this is not always easy. You can’t just go to the swingers dating site and choose the first couple that sends you a message. No, you have to get to know these people before you get into bed with them. This is why we are going to talk about the 5 things you need to know before you get into swinging.

Talk To Your Lover First

Suggesting something like this to your partner out of the blue is never a good thing. They might think that you have some problems in the relationship or that you don’t find them attractive anymore. So, if you want to talk about this with your lover, make sure you bring it up in a casual conversation. This will allow you to see where they stand on swinging. If they are okay with it, then you can suggest you try it out together.

Know Where To Look For Other Swingers

In case you and your spouse want to try out swinging, you have to know where to find other swingers in your town. You can’t just approach any couple you meet and ask them to have sex with you because this is sexual harassment. If you want to find another swinger couple, you have to visit swinger clubs in your town. There, you will find a lot of men and women who are looking for the exact same thing as you.

If One Of You Is Jealous This Won’t Work

Swinging implies that you have sex with other people and if one of you is jealous, this simply won’t work. If seeing your lover with another person makes you jealous, you won’t be able to enjoy swinging. In this case, it’s better not to try it because it can ruin what you have with your spouse.

It’s About Spicing Up Your Sex Life

One of the most important things you have to remember is that swinging is about spicing up your sex life, not an excuse to sleep with other men and women. Swinging is supposed to help you have better sex with your lover. If you are trying to find a new person to sleep with, swinging is not for you.

Be Discreet About It

You should know that most people don’t have nice things to say about swingers. So, if you don’t want to be judged in public, be discreet about your adventures.
If, however, you want to talk about it, talk, but don’t mention the names of people you are having sex with. Respect their privacy because they might not want to be known as swingers.


As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE Swinging! LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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Sex-Tech for Couples – To Use or Not to Use?

Modesty Ablaze Sex Tech For Couples

While we are recording massive growth in different areas of tech, sex-tech appears to be taking a lead position even ahead of drone development. According to an article in Forbes which you can read here, the sex-tech industry is worth about $30 billion with an annual growth rate at about 30%.

To say that this is a massive industry will be a failed attempt at modesty. With this growth rate, it is clear that it is going to be a major global force within a few years. But what exactly do we mean by Sex-tech?

Sex-Tech? What Is This?
To put it in the most basic of terms, this refers to any technology or process driven by technology that has the sole purpose of improving, modifying, innovating or impacting the sexual activities of humans in any way. While it now appears that the growth of this sector has picked up pace, it’s been around for a while.

Some examples of sextech include dildos, vibrators, the fleshlight and recently, the lifelike and life-size human dolls. Current advancements are even adding virtual sexual relations where parties can experience sexual satisfaction virtually, using some devices that will connect them despite being miles apart from each other.

This certainly is a revolution that is gradually but surely catching on. It is now easier than ever before to find a source from which to get any of these tools, be they online or offline. This further confirms its increasing acceptance in the society.

Benefits of Sex-Tech
These sex toys or tech have loads of benefits for the man, woman and the couple. We will be looking at these three categories because if the individuals in a relationship are not doing okay, the relationship cannot work.

Benefits for Men
These tech toys can help men relive a lot of tension whether they are single or in a relationship. Men are biologically known to have an average sexual urge and drive that is higher than that of the average female. Many men will testify to those frustrating times when their partners are not in the mood and so cannot oblige them.

With the right toys, no man has to endure such frustration since you can simply get the relief you desire with any of the many available tools.

Benefits for Women
Men may claim to have a higher sexual urge than the average female but no man can claim to be more sensitive or demanding when it comes to sex. Many females have been left frustrated by insensitive and selfish partners who do not bother to take the time to satisfy them.

Focused only on their own release, they work at it and once they climax (many times too soon), they leave the female literally hanging in space. With the right tool, the female can reach her own fulfillment without recourse to the man.

Benefits for Couples
Couples may probably be the highest beneficiaries here. There are different areas in a couple’s life that these technological innovations can be very useful. Let’s look at some of the more obvious ones.

Adding Spice to Your Sex Life
A lot of people do not appreciate the fact having sexual relations with just one person can get boring very quickly. Variety they say is the spice of life and in no other aspect of life is it more real than in the area of sexual relations.

There is a need for couples to spice up their sexual activities so as to make it more exciting and fresh. There are a variety of sex toys that can help with this.

Helping with Dysfunctions
Many relationships have broken up because of one sexual inadequacy or another. This sadly appears to affect the men the most. Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other such situations have caused many female partners a lot of frustration.

There are different tools that can be used to manage some of these conditions. Even if they cannot directly manage the condition, they can at least provide the other person with a route to achieve personal relief.

Stress Arising from Unavailability for Sex
There are times (and this can be very common in today’s reality) when one partner is just too tired to oblige the other. If the other party is seriously in the mood and has no other available option than the tired partner, some strain could result in the relationship from such a situation.

Whether it is the male or the female, they can simply pick up a toy and achieve their sexual bliss by themself.

Conclusion
In conclusion, we can all agree that sex, good sex is essential to most individuals, be they female or male. Whether as individuals or couples, having the ability to have great sexual experiences whenever we desire is something that has now been made very achievable with these tools.

All tools may not work for everyone which is why it is important to take some time to find out what works for you as an individual or as a couple.


As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE trying new things! LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump from @Bestvibe1

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 1

I always enjoy being asked to review what many people would normally regard as “men’s sex toys” because it gives me the fun opportunity to test them out during one of my sessions.

So I was particularly thrilled to receive the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump from Bestvibe as the majority (not all LOL!!!) of the submissives that arrive at my dungeon door, can usually do with some “enlargement”.

And I can immediately tell you that in every case, the Bestvibes Penis Pump, definitely did work . . . and was definitely fun to use.

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 2

It arrived in the post, neatly packed and wrapped in plain outer packaging . . . and I do like Bestvibes pledge regarding post and packaging, “With completely plain and boring packaging, you will receive your package discreetly. Our shipper name appears as “Mr X” on the return address. Neither Bestvibe nor our logo will appear on the outside of the package and there will be no mention of the nature of the contents. We also will state it contains Novelty and Gift on Customs Declaration form to avoid custom charges”.

And once unwrapped, even the internal product box itself is quite plain and tastefully branded with just the “Fondlove” logo. But as you will see from the accompanying photos here, the enlarger is certainly not a small item that can be discretely packed away in one’s bedside cabinet drawer. But then you wouldn’t expect it to be would you.

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 3

There are four main, detachable, parts to the Pump and these are quite easily and quickly connected and pushed into place in order to have it ready for action.

The main cylinder itself is made from a firm, clear ABS plastic, 2.5 inches in diameter and 11 inches in length from the base to the curved top with the impressive looking pressure gauge.

The 9 inch hose connecting the cylinder to the operating handle is made from quite a strong black plastic, and I must say that all of the components feel strong, well made and would appear to be quite durable. I have used the pump on quite a number of occasions now without any problems at all . . . and as I mentioned earlier, with complete success every time.

The assembly is completed by a flexible, thin black rubber cap that fits tightly over the bottom of the cylinder. It has an insertion hole in it’s middle, through which the subject pushes his member. The application of a little lube abound the hole, and over the penis, will help ease it through the hole whilst keeping it airtight to allow the vacuum suction to begin.

Now . . . this is the bit I particularly enjoyed . . . squeezing the handle!!!

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 4

The pumping, or squeezing action of the trigger-like handle, is actually quite easy and one can immediately see the effect of the suction beginning to work it’s magic as the penis inside starts to grow with each squeeze.

The pressure gauge dial shows the pressure increasing . . . and is quite addictive to keep checking actually, as I strive to better my previous readings! LOL !!!

But it is actually fun to see the penis swelling and enlarging inside the cylinder, as well.

One does have to be conscious of not squeezing too much too quickly though. I tend to squeeze and pause . . . squeeze and pause . . . and check with my “subject” that he is not feeling any discomfort. If he does, or if he feels he has reached his enlargeable limit, there is a “quick release, safety valve” located at the base of the handle which quickly deflates the pressure . . . but hopefully not the erection!

Modesty Ablaze Penis Pump 5

During my initial “testing” I was pulling the pump, with it’s rubber-sealed base, too quickly off the subject’s penis once he told me he had reached his limit.

But I soon found it easier, and more effective in maintaining the erection, to lift the edges of the black rubber seal away from around the base of the cylinder itself, thus leaving the seal impaled on his dick, where it can be more easily, and tenderly, slid off with some gentle massaging actions.

As I say, I found that doing it this way, especially when combined with some more lube in the palm of one’s hand, tended to help maintain his excitement at seeing his unusually enlarged erection.

So, in summary, the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump certainly works . . . though of course, putting it to good use is, as always, down to those involved.

And although I said myself at the beginning of this review that it is probably considered a “for him” toy, I really do feel that this device is much more fun for two, rather than just for playing “solo”. It certainly has been for me anyway!!

More “technical descriptions” and all the important information, and browsing links, are as below:

Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump:
Modesty Rating:
10 out of 10
Pros: Strong, sturdy and very easy to hold and operate.
Cons: I haven’t found any at all so far.
Packaging: Tastefully packaged in a strong, black cardboard box in three detachable main items, plus the black rubber seal and a small printed instructions leaflet!
Material: Firm and strong Plastic.
Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the cylinder to the tip of the pressure gauge dial = 11 inches. Cylinder diameter = 2.5 inches. Handle = 6 inches. Connecting hose (including the release valve) = 9 inches.
Operation: Manual squeezing of trigger-type handle.
Use Time: Dependent on the participants.
Colour: Clear plastic with black attachments.
Waterproof: Would be difficult to operate underwater, though would probably work in the shower.
Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil).
Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with warm soapy water, a damp cloth or a water-soluble cleaning agent.
Noise level: Nice air-suction sounds, and accompanying gasps of pleasure from the recipient.
Country of Manufacture: China.
Supplier Product Link: Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump
Supplier Website: bestvibe.com
Twitter:
@Bestvibe1
The Modesty Video Review:
You can view this fun Penis Pump in action from my Clips store >here<.

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The Fondlove Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump was sent to me, free-of-charge by Bestvibe.com,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator from @paloqueth_love

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator 1

I’m definitely a clit-girl, but have always had an on / off relationship with Rabbit Vibrators.

On when I’m in the mood for some quick stimulation and satisfaction . . . but often just as quickly off because I can lose concentration with the twitching and tickling motions of the “ears” over my clit. I much prefer slow and building pressure, rather than constant tickling you see!

But following my review earlier this year of the very lovely Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator I was quite excited to receive theirRotating Rabbit Vibrator several weeks ago.

And, my first impressions of this Rabbit, when I slid it from it’s impressive black box were actually much better than I’d felt about the Paloqueth Tongue.

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator 2

Though still a mid shade of purple, not my favourite toy colour I must admit . . . but clearly Purple and Black are Paloqueth’s corporate colours . . . the Rabbit feels quite substantial and weighty (though not uncomfortably so) to hold in ones hand.

Made from body-safe silicone elastomer material, the body of the vibrator, and the shaft leading to it’s penis-shaped head, is lovely and silky-smooth to the touch. As are the lovely ears that sit on a rabbit-shaped protrusion half -way up the body.

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator 3

The base, handle part, of the vibrator has three control buttons housed in a white smooth plastic shield embedded in the grooved stem. So they are very easy to find, and operate, even with one’s eyes closed!!!

The base has slightly bevelled edges so, rather annoyingly for me, it’s not possible to stand it up on one’s bedside table, though I suppose the ear-protrusion would make it difficult to balance upright anyway. But I just seem to always naturally want to stand it up proudly on it’s end whenever I’m finished
. . . though of course I never do this with any of my other toys, so it’s clearly just my own problem!

As I say, those buttons easily control the, quite powerful, dual motors of the Rabbit. The bottom button is to power on, and off, both motors simultaneously
. . . and it works perfectly, without some of the faff and struggles I sometimes have with other vibrators.

The middle button controls the, seven different patterns of intensity of the rabbit-ears . . . and I can tell you straight away that pattern three always does it for me . . . always!

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator 4

The top button controls the three rotation speeds of the shaft, and head, of the Paloqueth. Now, with it’s embedded stainless steel balls, this feels interesting and quite lovely when holding, or squeezing, in the palm of ones hand.

But actually for me it is the one disappointment of the Rabbit. Paloqueth says this rotating shaft is designed to “give you that extreme internal stimulation”.

Now, as I said at the beginning, I’m a clit-girl and as such, “extreme internal stimulation” doesn’t really do it for me anyway. But even if I was craving for that stimulus I don’t think this shaft is long, or thick, enough to reach the spot for me. And I’m not trying to suggest that I’m some sort of insatiable size-queen . . .
I just think that as this part of the shaft only extends for just over four inches further “in” from where those lovely vibrating tongue-ears are flapping and lapping over my clit, that I just can’t feel it once it has slid inside. But that is possibly just my own, personal, problem . . . my “internal-design” is not of the right shape, or curvature, for the shaft to do it for me.

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator 5

But, my word, those ears certainly DO do-it-for-me . . . and how !!! Because, despite being remarkably quiet for such powerful and intense vibrations . . . pattern three is just wonderful!!!

So although the “rotating” of the Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator doesn’t quite reach the spot for me . . . in every other respect, this is a wonderfully fun addition to my toy-box and one I would certainly recommend to any lady looking for a clit-tacularly lovely rabbit-vibe.

For more “technical descriptions” of this impressively powerful, and really wonderfully priced vibe, all the important information, and browsing links,
are as below:

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator:
Modesty Rating:
7 out of 10
Pros: Strong, sturdy and easy to hold and operate. Lovely silky smooth to the touch, and amazingly powerful vibrations.
Cons: For me, the rotating shaft is not quite long, or thick, enough!
Packaging: Wonderfully packaged in a strong, black, heavy cardboard. The vibrator itself nestles in perfectly shaped, black foam base, with it’s supplied USB charging cable and a small printed instructions leaflet!
Material: Lovely silky smooth, medical grade body-safe, medical grade, silicone. Small stainless steel beads embedded within the rotating shaft.
Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the handle to the tip of the head = 8.75 inches (220mm). Handle diameter = 30mm. Diameter at “penis-head” = 30mm. Two “vibrating ears” = each 20mm long and 3mm thick which sit on the 40mm rabbit-shaped protrusion half-way along the length.
Charging: USB (cable included), via charging port in the base of the handle (small lift-up flap). Charging time = 2 hours.
Use Time: 75 minutes? (Though who could last that long with those ears flapping!!!).
Colour: Purple.
Waterproof: Yes apparently (though I have not, yet, tested this).
Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil).
Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with warm soapy water, a damp cloth or a water-soluble cleaning agent.
Noise level: Very quiet for such powerful vibrations.
Country of Manufacture: China.
Supplier Product Link: Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator
Supplier Website: paloqueth.com
Twitter:
@paloqueth_love
The Modesty Video Review:
If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the Paloqueth in action here in the very near future.

The Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator was sent to me, free-of-charge by paloqueth.com,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.



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Guide to Finding the Best Dildos for Women

Getting a sex toy is one of the best ways to spice up your solo bedroom play, add some fire to your relationship or simply survive when your partner is far away on a business trip. For the inexperienced, shopping for a dildo isn’t going to be an exactly easy task. Luckily you have guides like this as one of the top resources online to help you find the perfect plaything.

Guide to finding the best dildos for women 1

There are a number of factors to consider when picking out a dildo. The ultimate goal is to find something that can bring you maximum pleasure. This means everything has to be spot on in terms of the shape, size, material and even the color and texture of the dildo. You also have to decide whether you want a vibrating dildo or not. Your choice of dildo should also be safe to use.

There is a plethora of options to choose from which presents exciting variety but at the same time might leave you confused as to which one to choose. Here’s a quick guide on the things to look out for when shopping for a dildo.

Shape

When shopping for dildos, you will find a lot of variety in terms of shapes to choose from. Generally, Curved dildos are considered the best for working the G-spot and hitting it right on. However, some women might just find the twisted contoured types better and a preferred option for them. If what you are looking for is something that feels more realistic, then a dildo sculpted to look like an actual penis should be your choice. Some of them even come complete with veins and ridges to further improve the look and feel.

Size: Girth and Length

The same way women have preferences in terms of penis size, the size of your dildo is also a major requirement in choosing the perfect one. If you pick something too small, it might not hit the spot the way you want it to, and you might not even be able to use the dildo at all if it is too large. 

Again, choosing a perfectly sized dildo depends both on experience and fantasy. You might judge what would be the perfect size for you based on your previous experience with an actual penis. At the same time, it can be based on partly or entirely on fantasy. You need to consider both the length and girth of the toy you are choosing.

Guide to finding the best dildos for women 2


If you have no prior experience and you are unsure of what would be a perfect size, you can carry out a small test to verify the perfect dildo size using fruits. Find out more on how to do that here.

Another innovative way to work your way around the problem of size when using a dildo is to but an inflatable dildo which can be pumped up after insertion. That way you can still get the full fill-up feeling without having to bother so much about insertion.

Material: the flexibility of your sex toy this depends almost entirely on the material it is made of. If you want something solid and rigid, then a metal or glass dildo is the perfect choice in terms of material. Silicone dildos also offer a lot in terms of flexibility but still has a solid feel to it as well making it great for hitting the G-spot. You should consider Jelly or rubber dildos if you prefer something softer. They are also easier to insert and will require you to use less lube compared to the solid types.

However, when considering the material, flexibility isn’t the only thing that is affected. You have to consider how easy it will be to maintain and clean your dildo. A jelly dildo, for example, is harder to maintain than a glass or silicone type since it tends to be permeable to water.

The material type also determines how adaptable your dildo will be to use. Glass and metal dildos, for example, can be warmed up or cooled to add extra variety to bedroom play. A silicone dildo also warms up very quickly and adjusts to body temperature than other types of dildos.

If you want something that feels as close to the real deal as possible, then a realistic dildo is a recommended choice. Not only are they shaped to look like a real penis. But they are also made with materials such as Cyberskin which give them a feel similar to that of an actual penis. However, just like jelly, realistic dildos are also hard to clean which is a downside if you are considering buying them.

A workaround for the problem of maintaining and cleaning your dildo is to always use a condom with it anytime you use it. This will reduce how often you have to clean it up and help prolong its life.

For more about picking a sex toy as a beginner, visit http://dangerouslilly.com/2010/06/ask-lilly-choosing-a-dildo-for-beginners/

The base of the dildo: many women might not give thought to this point when purchasing their sex toy but as you might come to find out it plays a part in how convenient playing with your dildo will be. A dildo with a balled end gives you greater control over the toy and helps to attain deeper thrust. One with a suction cup at the base is a recommended choice if you intend to attach your toy to a surface to use. Lesbian couples and some straight couples looking to experiment might find a strap-on dildo the perfect choice for them. You can also look out for regular dildos that are harness compatible for this same purpose.

There is no stereotyped guide or fixed rule for choosing a dildo. At the end of the day, your choice depends largely on your personal preferences. You might not always get it right the first time, but with time and experience, you will get better at choosing a dildo on your own.

As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE dildos
. . . for women AND for men! LOL !!!
So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator from @paloqueth_love

Modesty Ablaze Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator 1

I really do love my Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator when, at first, I actually thought I wouldn’t.

It arrived in my postbox the day before we left London for a long-planned Christmas / New Year vacation . . .

Modesty Ablaze Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator 2

. . . and I’d just had the time to unwrap the postage-packaging and open the very impressive, hard cardboard, black presentation box.

Modesty Ablaze Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator 3

The purple vibrator was cradled nicely in a black foam interior, along with a charging cable, small instruction leaflet and a purple satin pouch. But when I lifted the Paloqueth out of the box my first reaction was that although the ridged, purple tongues, on the face of the vibrator were intriguing, they actually looked, and felt, just a little too-much like a . . . well like a “toy”.

But, I had suitcases to pack, and an early-night’s sleep ahead . . . so I popped the vibrator back into it’s box and into the bottom drawer of my bedside cabinet . . . telling myself that further investigation would have to wait until I returned from our holiday.

And upon my return, three weeks later, I must confess that the rush and worry of getting back into work-mode meant that bottom drawer went unopened.
Until that is . . . early last Tuesday (my second week back).

I’d woken in the early hours hot and tingly from one of those fantasies that occasionally just pop into one’s head. A fantasy, that just seems to arrive from nowhere, for no particular reason . . . but a fantasy that is so hot, and so tingly, that I just know I will not be able to get back to sleep until my excitement is satisfied. (I won’t divulge this particular mornings fantasy here now, but if you ask nicely I may just replay it again on my pages here in the future).

Lost in my wetness, and with my fingers playing-out the rhythms of my adventure, I suddenly remembered those intriguing purple tongues that I’d been rubbing across my palms three weeks earlier. I leaned out over the side of the bed, opened the drawer, unboxed the Paloqueth . . . and re-acquainted myself!

The next few minutes of stroking and sliding, and adjusting the speed and pulsing levels, were simply lovely . . . and the resulting orgasm was shuddering and complete. I rolled over onto my side, curled myself up into my usual post-climatic bundle, and drifted off into a warm and satisfied slumber.

But in the cold light of day, (well the next day actually), would the Paloqueth be able to deliver such intense orgasms again, or was it the actual fantasy itself ???

The Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator & Satin Pouch

Well, I’m happy to say, that it certainly has been able to deliver . . . again and again !!!

So . . . as for my initial reaction about that “toy” look and feel ? Well I think
that was probably because the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator is quite small (just 6 inches in length) . . . and possibly because I’ve gotten a bit bored with purple as a colour. But, of course, performance is always more important than size isn’t it!

As I said, the body of the vibrator is purple with a chrome finish bottom cap and thin strip which houses the two small control buttons. It is made of medical grade silicone which is quite smooth to the touch, apart from the head which has a pad-like curved surface made up of numerous rows of small nodules parted by a middle row of seven curved “tongues”. The nodules protude several millimetres from the surface, whilst the tongues themselves stand-up about 6 or 7 millimetres higher again.

Modesty Ablaze Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator Tongues

You would probably think from looking at my photos here that they are quite “spikey” but in fact I would describe both the nodules, and the tongues themselves, as being “stiff”, rather than abrasive, and quite flexible and not hard to the touch at all.

The head of the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator

As you can see the head is curved in shape and has a little bit of flexibility and movement at it’s neck, which allows one to slide, and rock, it back and forth during use, to maximise the contact on one’s lips.

The control buttons are quite easy to use, holding the top “on” button down for several seconds to turn the motor on, and then using that same button to control the power and vibration settings. Holding the bottom button down for several seconds turns it off.

Control buttons for the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator

The vibrator is actually very quiet for it’s power . . . so quite discreet to use (in fact it was my thrashing about from side-to-side as I orgasmed that woke Hubby from his sleep next to me on that first morning, rather than the buzzing of the Paloqueth itself!)

There are apparently 8 different vibration settings, but as always with my vibes, I much prefer just the constant vibration modes rather than the stop-start pulsing settings. I do like to start with a lower speed and slide the head up and down and over the whole of my vulva . . . even turning it over occasionally to use the completely smooth back of the head to build me up . . . before increasing the speed and directing those tongues more specifically up and down over my clit.

Although I haven’t yet played with the Paloqueth outside of the bedroom, it is apparently waterproof, and as I mentioned earlier, very quiet at even it’s strongest vibrations. Charging is via the included USB cable which pushes into the rear of the handle (see below). But it arrived already charged which is a nice touch, and as I described for my first “wake-up” experience, that was certainly a bonus . . . and probably just as well.

Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator Charging

Paloqueth describe the vibrator as an “Oral Sex Simulator”, but of course it doesn’t actually feel like the real thing to me. However, I must say that it can actually bring me to orgasm far quicker than even the most tongue-skilled of my lovers . . . and it gives me completely different sensations than any of my dildo-type insertables, or my on-the-spot wand clittoral vibes . . . and at the moment it is my go-to play-time toy.

So . . . if you enjoy gentle clittoral stimulation, and quiet subtle buzzing and tingling, I really do suggest you give the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator a try!

As always, there are some more “technical descriptions” and browsing links for you below:

Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator:
Modesty Rating:
9 out of 10
Pros: Quite quiet, light and easy to hold, AND easy to position and manipulate for intense, kissing sensations.
Cons: It’s purple colour is a little asthetically off-putting for me!
Material: Non-porous, hypoallergenic, body-safe medical grade silicone.
Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the handle to the tip of the head = 6.5 inches. Handle diameter = 1.25 inches. Width of the “head” pad = 1.5 inches.
Charging: USB (cable included). Charging time = 1.5 hours.
Use Time: 2 hours.
Colour: Purple (see above).
Waterproof: Yes.
Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil).
Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with a damp cloth and water-soluble cleaning agent.
Noise level: Very quiet.
Country of Manufacture: China.
Supplier Product Link: Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator
Supplier Website: paloqueth.com
Twitter:
@paloqueth_love
The Modesty Video Review:
If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the Paloqueth in action here in the very near future.

Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator and Charging Cable

The Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator was sent to me, free-of-charge by paloqueth.com,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Modestly Impressive #Boobday Friday

I’ve always been impressed by a BIG one . . . and usually feel that I just
have to have it . . . immediately!

So when this lovely big one caught my eye walking down the salad aisle recently, I just couldn’t resist! I needed to hold it . . . feel it’s firm length and girth . . . and take it home with me!

“But what has a cucumber got to do with Boobday Friday” you may ask???
Well . . . I always feel fruity by the time Friday comes around!!!

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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