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A Modest Dip #sinfulsunday

Mistress Modesty Ablaze Godemiche Dildo“No, it’s not ‘Dip-stick’ !!!” Hubby exclaimed when I waved my suggestion at him for this week’s Sinful Sunday.

“It’s ‘Diptych’ . . . two-images side-by-side” he said, showing me Molly’s explanation of the prompt.

“Well I prefer MY version” I told him. “And you know how popular it is with some of my regulars!”

Anyway, for probably much more accurate examples of ‘Diptych’ just tap on the Sinful Sunday lips below!Sinful SundayOh . . . and by-the-by, this is the newest addition to my collection, from the extensive range from the lovely people at Godemiche

Xxx- K


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Finding the Eggsact Spot #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Easter EggactSpot

It’s Easter Sunday . . . so there’s bound to be lots of Egg Hunts just trying to find the best spot to . . . place that most prized Silver Egg.

And . . . if you push the lips below . . . you are sure to find lots of other
spots this Sunday!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. – My Special Silver Egg came from the lovely people at trusseduk.com

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#78 & The RO-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug

missrubyPhoto courtesy of Miss Ruby Reviews

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.













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Howling at the Moon @ #sinfulsunday

I know that Sinful Sunday is all about the image, but sometimes . . . for me . . . it’s also about the moment.

Modesty Ablaze Strap-on Sinful SundayAnd I always enjoy Sinful moments when I’m wearing my strap-on!!!

But the story of this sinful moment is for another time to tell.  In the meantime though, I’m sure you’ll find lots of other Sinful people this Sunday by slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Addressing recent complaints . . .

Complaints? Well, perhaps more a case of lots of email messages asking why I hadn’t posted a video review of my recent toy-review-post . . . about my Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug.

It has actually been, on the one hand, quite flattering to be asked . . . and on the other hand, almost worrying . . . LOL???

Holding the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug

But I do love my Diogol and because I myself felt more . . . comfortable . . . in looking at, and seeing the Diogol, in-the-flesh, so to speak, I thought it might actually be useful to make a review video after all . . .

So . . . if you are of a similar mind, please email me directly and I will see if I can send you your own exclusive video!!!

In the mean-time there are several of my video-reviews (if you are interested) at my Toy Review page.


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Xxx – K

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Modesty at the Hoxton Dungeon

If you are a regular visitor here you will know that I have always been interested in erotic fetish and bondage art and photography. But over the past year or so I have gradually discovered that I actually enjoy some of the physical aspects of fetish and bondage as well.

Lover 14 was the first of my lovers to talk quite openly about his interests and experiences in the lifestyle and my curiosity and my own desire was immediately aroused by his encouragement . . . and ever present bag of tricks!

Initially Hubby wasn’t quite so keen to indulge as I was, but after watching and videoing those first few experimental occasions he surprised both of us by becoming more and involved as time went by. And we were soon enjoying our own spanking and bondage sessions at home alone!

At first I was the submissive in my adventures with Lover 14, but I soon found I also enjoyed “switching” and playing the dominatrix role as well. So much so, that after meeting Madame Caramel late last year I instructed Hubby to book the Hoxton Dungeon Suite for an evening . . . and invited Lover 14 as a special guest.

So, late in February, for my Valentines gift, we booked ourselves in . . . and the three of us had an absolutely amazing, and exhausting, fun time!!!

The Dungeon Suite is a little difficult to find, but then “you would expect it to be that way” I chastised Hubby as he struggled with the chattering and confused Satnav directions! However, a quick phone call to the contact number we’d been given quickly resolved our problems.

We were pleasantly surprised to be welcomed by Madame Caramel herself and she gave us a short tour of the rooms . . . and an explanation of some of the quite incredible array of implements and toys.

The suite itself comprises of a “normal” bathroom and small kitchen area with microwave, hob and oven, and a well-stocked fridge . . . and a bedroom with a comfortable double-bed. But it was, of course, the playrooms that we were most interested in!!!

Modesty Ablaze at Hoxton Dungeon

Welcome to The Red Room!!!

Madame described the The Red Room as “Mistresses waiting room” where the submissives should begin their worship and attending to their preparations. We glanced across at the Standing Cage already thinking of possibilities . . . and then with incredulity at the glass cabinet full of clamps, weights, screws and apparatus of all shapes, sizes and materials. The Red Room also has an exciting selection of garments and outfits, from rubber suits, maids outfits and dresses that had me making a mental note to return to browse further!!!

We were then, excitingly, led through to the dungeons Main Room . . . a jaw-dropping panorama of the sort of bondage equipment, whips, chains, restraints and toys, the like of which I had probably imagined, but never expected to see, or touch or feel!!!

Madame explained the “house rules” and the safety aspects of some of the more unfamiliar toys and equipment, pointed out the condom containers (we had brought our own, but “just in case we run-out”) and explained how we must place all the toys we used into a large container so that they may be properly cleaned after our departure. Then with flourishing kisses and farewells . . . we were left to our own devices.

Oh, and what devices!!! . . . there were so many choices it was difficult to know just where to start, but of course, it didn’t take us too long at all . . .


The St. Andrews Cross

I’d often fantasised about a St. Andrews Cross but never thought I’d have the opportunity of trying the real thing. But over the next few hours, all three of us found ourselves strapped in position, for varying lengths of time (LOL!!!) and experiencing the delights (???) of being both master and submissive.

I was chosen to be the first though! Gently teased with soft strokes from canes and paddles . . . feeling the tightness and grip of nipple clamps and weights, and then the rising crescendo of a flogging whip. Before being caressed and stroked . . . and then pumped and pounded . . . to the first of countless orgasms.

After which I needed time to recover the feeling in my arms and legs . . . and what better way to unwind than by sitting on the Queening Box and ordering my submissives to enjoy and share in my relieving relaxation! (And guess who was the first???)

Modesty's Queening Stool

Resting, relaxing and unwinding on the Queening Box . . .

Then it was Lover 14’s turn to be strapped to the Cross so that I could enjoy administering some fun of my own. Of course he coped admirably! By the time we released him I was glowing and tingling almost as much as he was and couldn’t wait to offer myself to be strapped over the whipping bench for the next round of pampering, teasing, spanking and fucking from both of my attentive and willing dommes.

Over the course of the next few hours we indulged in just a tiny few of the available ropes and chains, cuffs and restraints, canes, paddles, whips and masks. We moved from the bench, to bondage chair and then onto the top of the padded cage and suspension frame . . . playing, with various rest and recovery breaks of course, until well into the early hours of the morning, each of us collapsing exhausted but completely satiated.

Until the morning! When, after refreshing and revitalising croissants and juices, we returned to the Main Room for several more hours indulgence and discovering new toys we’d missed the night before.


Browsing one of the racks in the Main Room!!!

And we STILL didn’t even scratch the surface of all the things that are available. Not that everything there was of interest of course! It is always a case of personal preference isn’t it . . . and there were some instruments on display that looked positively scary and definitely not for us.

But if you have even just a passing interest in bondage and fetish you will know that it is often the expectation and the anticipation of trying something new that can be the strongest and most exciting emotion. And just being sensible and respectful of each of our interests and desires . . . and ones “safe words” . . . is the most important point to remember amidst all of the excitement.

Modesty Ablaze at Hoxton Dungeon

Ooohh . . . Spoilt for choice!!!

I hope our pictures will give a flavour of just how much we all enjoyed ourselves . . . (and there will be some more private pictures at my Balcony Members page in the next few days) . . . but there is also a plethora of information on the Dungeon and a complete list of all the equipment and toys, including a floor-plan and Picture Gallery at their excellent website. All the equipment is professionally made, clean and maintained to the highest standard . . . and the sheer number and range of toys and accessories simply has to be seen to be believed.

So, if you’ve ever dreamed about exploring the wilder side of your bondage fantasies, or wondered what it really feels like to be strapped onto a St. Andrews Cross, or locked into a submissives cage . . . or indulge in almost any naughty play you could possibly imagine . . . then I am sure you would love The Hoxton Dungeon Suite. We will definitely be returning . . . just to try all the things we didn’t have the time to experience on this occasion!

There is more information about the Dungeon Suite from the official link below . . . and just so you know . . . I actually ordered Hubby to pay for our booking . . .  so my review is based completely on my own, unbiased, experiences!!!

July 2014 Update: I do now have a new video at MakeLoveNotPorn featuring just some of the fun, and some of the toys, at the Hoxton Dungeon. More information at my MLNP page (just scroll down to Video  No. 10) . . . plus I have a little video teaser >here<!!!

Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10
When: February 2014
Pros: The perfect place to actually experience all of your wildest fantasies.
Cons: Completely exhausting!!! (So glad we booked a Friday evening as I couldn’t possibly have worked the next day).
Location: London
Transport: Close to overground rail and London Underground Tube stations. If travelling by car (as we did) you can request a parking permit for close, localised parking.
Official Website: The Hoxton Dungeon Suite

P.S. You can find out more about me at my Mistress Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

Important Rider:  Please play Safely and Responsibly !!!

Xxx – K


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The Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug . . .

Experiencing the pleasures of anal play is reasonably new for me. It’s only been over the past year or so that I’ve opened-up enough . . . so to speak . . . to be able to fully enjoy the different sensations this sort of stimulation brings.

So I hadn’t really thought about trying a butt plug until quite recently when one of my Lovers mentioned them in conversation and I thought to myself “Hmm, that would be a nice treat to surprise him with for our next meeting!”

The range and styles and sizes of plugs available, as I searched my favourite on-line store Sh! was quite overwhelming though . . . so for this rather special purchase I decided to pop-into Sh! HQ at their Hoxton shop here in London so that I could see and feel the options for myself . . . and of course, ask the wonderfully helpful Sh! girls on the counter for their own advice and recommendations.

I’d seen the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug as I’d browsed on-line and it had already aroused my interest . . . but as soon as I saw and handled the real thing I immediately fell in love with it.

Holding the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug

The surgical-steel material it is made from just feels so lovely and smooth to the touch . . . and of course I just loved the Swarovski crystal inlay on the base.

ModestyButtShBeing a “beginner” the lovely Rene at Sh! suggested that the 25mm-sized Diogol was probably the perfect starting point for me . . . and as I rolled it about in my hand I didn’t need any further convincing. I loved the feel of it (if only, for the moment at least, between my fingers!)

Available in Red or Purple, I chose the Purple option and was already tingling as the girls lovingly wrapped my new toy (and an accompanying tube of lube) in the Sh! signature pink tissue . . . I just couldn’t wait to get it home.

Diogol Butt Plug PackagingAs well as being lovely to hold and to look at, the Plug comes perfectly packaged in it’s own sturdy presentation box. Mine was in a clear plastic base and lid, but I understand the newest boxes are black.

Once at home I was straight upstairs, anxious and excited to try my new toy . . . it felt so lovely again in the palm of my hand as I twirled it round and showed Hubby the sparkling crystal. Whilst it could hardly be described as heavy it does feel more “substantial” than some of the other plugs I’d looked at in the shop . . . and that made my anticipation even greater.

Being made from non-porous steel the Diogol can be used with any lubricant . . . oil, silicone or water-based . . . and it’s smooth and gently tapered design made it actually very easy to insert. LOL!!!

I immediately purred as I stood up and walked slowly around the room. I’d imagined that it might feel uncomfortable, even painful, to move around with something permanently in my bottom. But actually it felt wonderful and I became more and more aroused as I bent over and posed for Hubby, and then for myself in the mirror. “Mmm . . . I really do love that crystal!!!”.

I didn’t actually keep it in for too long on that first occasion . . . **more on this later . . . but come the next morning I teasingly told Hubby I was going to wear it “all day”.

No, I didn’t wear it into work on the Tube! I was too worried I’d lose control and it would fall out. Can you imagine, in the middle of rush hour, my jewelled Diogol rolling around on the floor of the carriage between the feet of my fellow commuters??? But once in my office I slipped off to the washroom and excitingly applied a gentle coating of lube and slid it in for a second time. Oh God, it felt so arousing walking back into the office and over to my desk! The lovely, petite shape and design, and it’s unobtrusive end-piece, means it is completely invisible beneath my skirt so only I knew it was there. And, oh did I know it was there! So much so that I only managed a few hours . . . not because of any discomfort . . . but just because I couldn’t actually concentrate properly on all the “normal” things I should have been doing.

Since then I have worn my plug on a number of occasions (no, not back into work) but around the house for Hubby . . . and, of course, as a special treat for that Lover of mine who enjoys playing with my bottom so much.

So, if like me, you consider yourself to be a beginner and are a little unsure of where to start, I would heartily recommend the Diogol. The size and gentle taper and girth make it nice to fit and comfortable to wear and the feel of it inside as you move about, make it for me at least, arousing both physically and mentally as that “feel” keeps reminding me of my intimate occupant. And that jewelled end-piece gives you the peace of mind that your plug won’t accidentally slide all the way in!!! (Yes, I was actually worried about that at first! LOL!!!)

Modesty Ablaze grips the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug

NB: A Cautionary Tale Update – September 2015 !!!
For a recent meeting with one of my Lovers . . . who loves my bottom, and does seem able to so easily do wonderful things down there . . . I’d decided to wear my Jewelled Butt Plug for him as a special surprise. However, I inserted it before I set off for the journey to the hotel. Due to traffic problems, the drive took almost two hours. Perhaps because I’d been concentrating, perhaps because I was quite excited, I hadn’t felt any discomfort or movement during the trip. BUT, after checking into our room and starting to run myself a shower, I suddenly realised the plug had slipped completely inside me!!! Some minutes of panic followed . . . but luckily (incredibly luckily) with some awkward pulling and twisting I was able to get a grip on the end of the plug and pull it back out. But it was a quite frightening few minutes and . . . understandably I’m sure you’d agree . . . I haven’t worn it since!
It may have just been me, it may have been my moving about on the car seat, it may have been the excitement and anticipation of seeing my Lover, and it may have been simply that I had it in for far too long . . . BUT . . . I can only advise that one should take extreme care with this toy. I now always make sure that any plug-play involves a plug with a much larger flared-base (I can recommend some if you’d like to message me directly for more information).
So . . . anyway . . .

There is more “technical” information about the Diogol below . . . and from clicking directly on the image beneath.

Modesty Rating: 8 out of 10
Pros: Smooth and lovely shape, feel and fit. Gorgeous to look at!!!
Cons: Doesn’t “stay-in” during intercourse** (so perhaps I need a slightly larger size?)
Material: Surgical Steel
Phthalate Alert: None
Actual Length: 56mm / 2.2 in.
Insertable Length: 50mm / 2.0 in.
Diameter (at widest): 25mm / 0.99 in.
Weight: 38g
Ease of Use: Nice and Easy!
Waterproof: Yes
Lube: Any
Cleaning of the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug: Hand-wash with warm water and mild soap. Sterilize with mild antibacterial soap. Rinse warm water and polish with lint-free cloth
Care of the Diogol Jewelled Butt Plug: Keep away from heat / sunlight. Store in a dry, fluff-free place. I keep mine in it’s presentation box which makes it easy to find in my, rather crowded, toy-drawer as well as keeping it clean.

Pricing Info: The Diogol is currently out of stock at Sh! However I can thoroughly recommend >this similar plug< as a wonderful alternative!!!



P.S. Important Rider: I purchased this toy from Sh! . . . well actually I made Hubby buy it for me! . . .  so my review is based completely on my own, unbiased, experiences of this toy.

P.P.S.  (for my Balcony Members) . . . there will soon be some more “personal” photographs of the Diogol on my “Feeling Naughty” page.

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze Bound new video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

My newest video, “Modesty Ablaze Bound & Unbound” for #realworldsex, is now available on MakeLoveNotPorn.tv  !!!

You can watch my YouTube introduction to the film by clicking the image above.

It is my third video for #realworldsex at Make Love Not Porn.

I’ve always enjoyed a little-bit of light bondage, but it wasn’t until we met Lover No.14 that I was introduced to Rope Play.

I soon found I really enjoy being tightly bound in the ropes and knots and this video starts with No.14 doing just that. I love the feeling of being helpless and completely at his mercy and of course loved the naughty things that he, and Hubby, do to me before and after, I am unbound and released.

I completely lost count of how many orgasms I had, but it was a truly magical evening.

When I am lost in those moments of passion (I call it my “love cocoon”) I am so completely carried away that a herd of wild horses could probably charge through the room and I wouldn’t be able to stop.


I just seem to get consumed by wave after wave of wonderful orgasms. Even the tips of my fingers and toes seem to tingle and vibrate . . . until eventually I’m drained completely. Everything goes numb and I usually have to roll over onto my side and curl up into a ball (as happened on this occasion), suddenly feeling self-conscious and swearing at Hubby “turn that video off now, that’s enough, just cuddle me please”.

I hope you will enjoy this and do please let me know if you would like us to upload more. You can view my profile on MLNP.tv .

Xxx – Katie

P.s. It’s free to register at MLNP . . . and then you simply pay a minimum fee to “rent” a video for three weeks, so you can watch me over, and over, and over again for less than Lover No.14 paid for that cup of coffee I was enjoying on my Early morning Coffee in Euston post !!!

Oh, and p.p.s. there are lots, and lots, of other wonderful people with their own #realworldsex videos that I’m sure you will enjoy at:

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