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Modest Date Night #sinfulsunday

I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .

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. . . to the moment I leave !!!

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. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!

See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Kisses Part 2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

ModestyAblazeKissesPt2CoverSince my Valentines Kisses video was published at Make Love Not Porn in February, I’ve had lots and lots of emails asking when “Part Two” would be available.

Well, I’m delighted to say that it is finally here . . . Part Two of that fabulous, sexy, exhausting . . . but wonderfully fun evening of just pure, real world sex.
Because that’s what it simply was . . . just a wonderful evening of real and passionate loving . . . and kissing  all over.

And . . . I do mean ALL OVER . . . because I do so love giving, and receiving, those gorgeously deep, sucking . . . and all-consuming . . . passionate kisses that only Lover No. 50 seems to give.

KissesPt2Teaser3Oh and did I mention . . . DEEP . . . and EXHAUSTING ??? . . . well you will just have to watch the video to see EXACTLY how DEEP and EXHAUSTING I mean.

And, don’t forget, if you register at the lovely Make Love Not Porn dot TV website . . . and watch this introductory video from there . . . you will see some exclusive Free Clips from my “Valentines Kisses Part 2” video at the end. It’s FREE to register and you can see Free Clips of not only all my videos there . . . but lots and lots of other fun #realworldsex videos as well.

The MakeLoveNotPorn.tv Make Lingerie Love Not Porn post recently previewed Valentines Kisses Part 2 as:

In part two of Valentine’s Kisses, Modesty and her lover(s) are totally euphoric! Full of extremely deep, passionate kisses, and some very impressive #downtown action, this video proves that more really is the merrier! Especially when you’re queen Modesty and it’s Valentine’s Day!

You can view my short introduction to “Valentines Kisses Part 2” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention in that video, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Valentines Kisses Part 2” is my 27th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy viewing “Valentines Kisses Part 2” as much as I enjoyed receiving them!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s memories of Desire #wickedwednesday

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Desire” . . . the very emotion that first set my Modesty Ablaze and started Hubby and I on our amazing journey that has brought us here.

So I thought it an appropriate moment to share an excerpt from my diaries at the time. Diaries that I wrote initially to share only with Hubby . . . then became brave enough to share in short posts on my first attempts at blogging here at modestyablaze.com . . . and then, at the suggestion of several early followers, to publish as short autobiographical ebooks.

The excerpt here is from my first diary “The Journey”.


S had been texting and calling me for a week suggesting we meet for “an early Valentines”. As the weather had been so bad over the past few days, and negotiating the streets and finding parking in Hampstead can be difficult even in normal circumstances, we agreed to meet directly at our normal hotel. S suggested we could order room service and just soak in the bath whilst we waited.

He’d reminded me it would be an “anniversary” of sorts (he’s always coming up with “anniversaries” of different meetings, places or events of our times together) . . . so I decided to impress him by packing the red bra, panties and suspenders set he’d bought me last year into my “work bag” as I left for the office in the morning. I’d shown James of course as we got ready to leave for work. We always kiss our goodbyes even more passionately in the morning when he knows that I’ll be meeting S after work, but knowing that I was taking “special undies” made him even more passionate than normal.

The, by now, depressing routine of nine hours plus at the office was made more bearable during the day by my tingles of excitement that I’d be having an evening out after work! I freshened-up in the washroom as all my colleagues disappeared one by one, and I locked myself in my office to do my nails and begin changing. I knew I had loads of time before I needed to call a taxi, so decided to do my toenails as well. As I sat with my tissue dividers between my toes waiting for them to dry I got more and more excited thinking about “dressing-up” for my meeting. I’d already changed into my bra and suspenders and panties and was sitting on my chair with just my jacket draped around my shoulders whilst waiting for my nails to dry. I decided that perhaps I didn’t need my blouse or skirt after-all . . . that perhaps I could just arrive with my grey woollen overcoat and scarf . . . and nothing else at all apart from my lacy red undies. I was sure he’d really appreciate seeing his gift displayed so quickly as I took-off my coat!

Then reality kicked-in and I realised how dangerous, and naughty, it would be to be sitting in the back of a taxi all the way from the West End to the other side of Hampstead with virtually nothing on except for a coat and scarf. I’d walked, in the middle of the night, the few streets to and from S’s house like that, but travelling miles and miles in the back of a black cab . . . that was an entirely different matter!

The more I thought about it though, the more tingly I became. I thought about calling James and asking him, but I knew he’d be on his way home and, anyway, I knew what he would say of course!!

I removed the tissues and pulled on and fastened my stockings. I pulled on my coat and scarf and sneaked down the corridor to the washroom. The mirror isn’t full-length but I stood back as far as I could to see if it “looked unusual”. As I slipped back to my office I knew I’d have to be phoning for a cab soon anyway, so I had to make up my mind. I could hear my voice almost trembling as I phoned. Here I was ordering a taxi on the business account . . . arranging to meet a lover not a client . . . and I was hardly dressed appropriately for company travel . . . Would the radio-controller be able to tell from my voice, would the cab-driver know ?

Fifteen minutes before the cab would arrive and I took off my coat and started to put on my skirt . . . several times!

I was excited . . . and then sensible . . . and then excited . . . and then nervous again. Then my phone rang. Security from reception to say my taxi had arrived !! I pushed my blouse and skirt into the bottom drawer of my desk, tightened my scarf as tightly as I could . . . and, almost floated, to the door of the lifts.

I have sunbathed topless in Spain and Greece, streaked naked for a few hundred yards through Epping Forest in the pouring rain, spent a day at the Tennis Championships with no panties beneath my dress . . . but I have never felt so tingly and so naughty . . . and so aroused as I felt sitting in the back of that taxi. As we crawled along Edgware Road and I gazed out of the window at everybody bustling by and the other cars next to us in the traffic, I felt hot flushes rather than chilly as I thought I might. The taxi-driver had his heater on of course, but it was my tingling that was making me feel hot, and I was sure my face must have been as red as my nails and lipstick. The driver was jovial and talkative . . . and I was polite and conversational in return, but all the time my mind was racing about what James would think when I told him later of how I’d left the office. We were still ten minutes away from the hotel when S texted to tell me he’d arrived and gave me the room number. I replied that he could “start running me a bath” and that I would be there soon.

I certainly felt the chill as I stepped out of the taxi outside the hotel and thanked the driver . . . but I felt a completely different sensation as I strode across the foyer and stepped into the lift !!

I found the room easily and tapped lightly on the door. S kissed me lightly on the cheek as he let me into the room, telling me “your bath is ready madam”. But as I twisted off my scarf and unbuttoned and opened my coat he just stood for a few seconds, his face changing from a smile to almost a gasping look . . . “wow, incredible, simply incredible” . . . before stepping forward and pulling me into a squeezing embrace. His hands were running all over my back and his kisses almost stiffling me. I had to pull away and extricate my arms from the sleeves of the coat before he was pulling me into him again and kissing down my neck to my breasts. He unclipped my bra and was then sucking at my nipples . . . all seemingly within a few seconds. We were still standing just inside the door of the room. “Do you remember these?” I asked him as I helped him slide the straps of the bra from my shoulders. “Of course. I can’t believe you came just like this”.

“Mmm. I can’t believe I did either, but it’s made me feeling very naughty!” We continued kissing, still standing in the same spot. He had slid both his hands inside my panties, squeezing my bum cheeks and kissing from one nipple to the other. He pulled my panties down, dropping down onto his knees as he pulled them to the floor, and nuzzling into my pussy. As I opened my legs to step out of the panties and shake them off each ankle, his tongue was licking between my lips and he was pulling me into his face as he kissed and licked more. He stood up and led me across to the bed, sitting me down and then kneeling down by the side of the bed to continue licking at me more. I was already tingling all over but protested I should “have my bath first”. He lifted away to say I tasted so sweet and sexy that he didn’t want to stop. He pulled off my shoes as he continued to lick at me and then as I lay back a little more onto the bed, I felt  . . .


There is more of course . . . but I wouldn’t want you to become bored . . . SO, So, so . . . for more thoughts, memories and experiences of “Desire”, this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday, simply click the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

P.S. – If you would like to read the conclusion of this excerpt, “The Journey” my first auto-biographical diary is availabe as an E-book PDF >here<.

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Nominations are open for the Top Sex Bloggers of 2014

Modesty Ablaze CuffedDoes October make you feel blue, bored, blasé . . . with the fun of your summer holiday already a fading, distant memory . . . and are thoughts of the pressure and chaos of Christmas already crossing your mind? 

Well here’s an ideal opportunity for some exciting and titillating distraction and enjoyment . . . not one, but two, Top Sex Bloggers of 2014 Nomination Websites for you to peruse and investigate!!!

Every year both Kinkly and Between My Sheets offer their readers the opportunity to nominate their favourite on-line reading, most sexciting, most sexformative, most-visited bookmarks in their browser.

Not only is it a great way of passing on a little thanks to some of the people that have entertained and informed you throughout the year . . . or who, perhaps unknowingly, may have given you strength and self-believe in sharing thoughts and experiences similar to your own . . . but I also find it is a wonderful way of discovering yet more interesting and fun erotic people and their blogs!

Blogs and experiences that you may otherwise have never come across . . . blogs and experiences that strike a chord, reinforce feelings and desires that you share . . . blogs and posts that make you laugh out loud in agreement (or sometimes wonder!)

So, I really do recommend that you follow both of the above links . . . because I am sure you will find fun times within.

And fun times, for me, is what life should be all about . . . so go on, click and enjoy.

Oh, and yes, I will feel flattered, and honoured should you wish to mention, or include, www.modestyablaze.com during your travels >here< at Kinkly or >here< Between Rori’s Sheets . . . but most of all, I hope you find fun times!!!

Xxx –  K

Oh, and p.s. – Huge thanks, as always, to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) for the picture of me above!

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Modesty’s Valentines kiss – 3 for 1!

It really has been a busy year already . . . and the coming week is just as busy . . . so I thought I’d wish you all an early Happy and Sexy Valentines Day for this cumming Friday.

And . . . as a special Valentines bonus . . .  if you buy just one of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries during the next two weeks, I will email you any two other books of your choice completely FREE.

Details of all my current E-Diaries are available on my E-books page and they can be downloaded from my Amazon, Smashwords and Gumroad profiles. (You can hear me reading a short extract from two of my books at my Modesty Speaks page).

So, three kisses for one!!!

And I hope you have . . . and give . . . lots and lots more sexy and fun kisses over the next few days.

Xxx – K

P.s. Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury (see my sidebar) and, of course, the lovely Hubby . . . for their pictures above.

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Wishing you all a Happy, Fun . . . and Sexy, New Year . . .

2013 really was a marvellous year for me . . . and I hope for you as well . . .

I’d like to thank you all for visiting me here, now over 69,000 visits!!! . . . (you know 69 is my FAVOURITE number) . . . and I’d like to wish you all a Happy, Fun and Sexy, 2014.

. . . here’s hoping we can all start the New Year with a Bang!!!

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I’m looking forward to even more fun in 2014 . . .

Best wishes – Xxx –  Katie

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Give a 69 from Modesty Ablaze this Christmas . . .

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Yes Christmas is just around the corner . . . and if you are wondering just what gift you could give to your “special friend”, how about a Modesty Ablaze diary . . . for just 69 pence???

I don’t mean the sort of diary you start scribbling notes into in January . . . and then leave unopened on top of the fridge for the rest of the year . . . I mean one of my Ebook diaries of some of my own special dates from the past!!!

Choose any of my Diaries, using the special discount codes below from Gumroad, from now until the New Year.  (Simply enter the appropriate code in the “Offer Code” panel in the payment details screen). Ebook downloads at Gumroad are in PDF format which can be read on Kindle and E-book readers, AND directly on your Tablets and Laptops. AND, the PDF files will have a FREE bonus picture on the back page.

AND . . . if you prefer . . . once you have downloaded the file you can email me directly to request an additional FREE Kindle or E-Pub version if you wish.

So, why not share a Modesty Ablaze 69 with that special someone in your life . . . you never know, it might just put some tingles in your jingles this Holiday Season!!!


TheJourney200forFrontPageThe Modesty Diaries Pt 1 – The Journey

With every thrust my lover was sending me further into my cocoon, my own world of warmth and explosion. I was vaguely aware of the flashing of a camera, my husbands camera, and above my gasps and moans, and the rising grunts of my young lover thrusting above me, I could hear the clicks of the lens!! As I felt the orgasm rising within me, memories of the past two decades flashed before me.
Discount Code  er131013  at  Gumroad


Arrivals400The Modesty Diaries Pt 2 – Arrivals & Departures – A passionate goodbye

Vince was the unlikeliest of all my lovers. Almost half my age, and seconded to my department on a temporary placement from the Paris office. The CEO had asked that he be made welcome and helped to settle in to develop a higher European profile for the company. My initial upset at being given this unwanted responsibility, was soon swayed by the young Frenchman’s wit and charm.

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The Modesty Diaries - Pt 3 The BalconyThe Modesty Diaries Pt 3 – The Balcony

Vince was my most recent lover. He was new in the office, and 20 years my junior. His candour and youthful charm had already taken me into new levels of excitement and passion. But tonight’s embrace on the balcony overlooking The Thames is just the start of an even wilder evening. An evening that ends with an exciting confession to make to my husband James when I, finally, returned home.

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NaughtySurprise200pixThe Modesty Diaries Pt 4 – A Naughty Surprise

I knew one shouldn’t play too close to home, but Scot was only my second lover. I’d met him on the morning school run and with my new-found ‘freedom’ I just couldn’t resist his flirting. I knew it was dangerous and risky. What if the other Mums noticed our playground glances and private jokes? What if they put two and two together? But we couldn’t control ourselves. Our affair exploded into almost weekly meetings of passion and excitement.

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The Modesty Diaries Pt 5 – My Cougar Moment

Normally when Hubby and I have a night out at our Swingers Club we will spend the first hour or so sitting at the Bar chatting to staff or to other couples, or singles, that we have met previously. And Hubby enjoys me dressing like that and sitting, or standing, at my side or watching me take an occasional stroll away from the bar to investigate what may be happening in the play areas, or “public” viewing rooms, and then strolling back through the main lounge, “strutting my stuff” as he calls it.

But on our most recent visit, I did something I’d never, ever done before and it turned into one of the most exciting evenings we’ve ever enjoyed there.

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The Cover Picture on EACH of my books is me !!! . . . and, the Gumroad PDF editions feature a different naughty Bonus back cover picture on each diary, and cover images of all my current Ebooks.

AND, yes, the normal Ebooks FREE EXTRA’s still apply to any of my Modesty Ablaze 69 special purchases.

Xxx – Katie

P.S. – Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury (see sidebar links) for the “handcuffs” photograph of me above.

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A special Modesty 69 at Erotica 2013

Erotica69OfferThe UK’s largest and longest running adult show, Erotica, begins on Friday (October 25th) at Tobacco Dock in London.

AND this year there will be a special Erotic Authors room for Smut By The Dock with lots of the naughtiest, sexiest . . . and yes, smuttiest . . . books for you to buy.

AND many of the authors will be visiting themselves to give impromptu readings . . . including the lovely Victoria Blisse, Lucy Felthouse, Kristina Lloyd, Ashe Barker, KD Grace, Kay Jaybee, Cara Sutra, LK Wilkerson, Toni Sands, Aoife Brennan and Zak Jane Keir.

Just imagine . . . hearing those words that you’ve tingled and twisted to, read by the very person that wrote them.

Needless to say, I WILL be visiting to listen . . . and tingle!!!

There will also be an erotic author Q&A session at 5.30 p.m. each day, run by Victoria and Lucy with various other authors in attendance.

AND whilst you are browsing I hope you will pick-up one of my Leaflets or Business Cards for a Specific-Erotica-only Voucher Code which will allow you to purchase any of my Ebooks from Gumroad or Smashwords for just 69p. After the Show closes on Sunday evening I will also draw five of the Voucher Codes for FREE downloads of all three of my Diaries available on Amazon.

You can find more details on some of the featured books and authors at: Smutters and from the Smut By The Dock organisers Victoria and Lucy.

AND of course there are lots and lots of other exciting Adult events, stage shows and exhibitors (including the fabulous John Tisbury Erotic Photography) throughout the three days of the show. So you never know, you may just bump into me there . . . Or perhaps even at one of the after show parties Erotica Swingers Party  or Erotica Winter Ball.

You can find more information about Erotica 2013 and buy your tickets >here<.

I really do hope to see you there !!!

Xxx – K

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“I wish my wife was like you” . . .

ModestyShirtA recent comment on one of my posts . . . mirrors several emails I’ve received recently mentioning things along the lines of “I wish my wife was like you”.

I always try and respond with “well – do you talk with them about your feelings and desires? . . . Because, deep down inside, they MAY actually want to be someone different!!!”

Any relationship, no matter how much you actually love someone, can become routine and mundane. And, particularly if one is trying to balance the pressures and stress of bringing-up ones children, running the family home . . . and very probably going out to work as well . . . it can be incredibly tiring and draining.

I know that despite the fact that we’d always had a fun and adventurous relationship, and despite my Hubby always encouraging me to express my deepest feelings right from the very beginning, I still felt it hard to completely “open-up”, or even admit to myself, the things that really excited me. Perhaps it was my Catholic upbringing. Perhaps a lack of self-confidence. Perhaps a fear of being rejected.

So I couldn’t admit to feeling flattered, and excited, and interested by the approaches of other men. And despite all the feelings of guilt and probably initially at least, shame . . . I found myself embarking on an office affair. It was an escape, a distraction, a release from my “ordinary” life. And it was a thrill and an excitement I just couldn’t deny.

And yet . . . I also couldn’t deny those feelings of guilt and deception . . . and the moment I felt I had to “confess my sins” was one of the most frightening moments of my life. But instead of exploding in fits of rage Hubby insisted he knew that I had been seeing someone else, almost from the start. He told me he loved the fact that I could experience that excitement, and difference, and fun . . . and that it simply enriched our lives.

That moment was truly life-changing. Realising that we could both share absolutely everything about ourselves, all our deepest personal secrets, desires and needs, was an incredible feeling.

Of course it didn’t change our lifestyle overnight. We still had all those normal, everyday, pressures. The work, the home . . . and the children. But suddenly that one emotional, heart-wrenching conversation meant that nothing could come between us. If we could talk so openly, and understand, and share each others sexual desires and needs, we could talk and understand anything and everything.

My affair continued and my new-found “freedom” meant I was able to meet and develop other relationships over the coming months and years. My sharing all of the details with Hubby of my “evenings out” grew and developed with an almost natural unplanned progression into him meeting several of my lovers. Then into him actually joining us . . . then into Swingers Clubs . . . then into . . .

And the more we shared, the more we talked, the stronger our relationship became . . . and it continues still !!! Our life just continues to get better . . . and more fulfilling, and more exciting . . . and more fun.

Why am I telling you all this???

Because . . . I understand how difficult it can be sometimes to just open-up and tell someone we really love, just what we really, really feel inside. Particularly about sex! Why is it that we find something so natural, so basic, so fundamental, so difficult to talk about? If we can only just put aside all those feelings of guilt, shame . . . and jealousy . . . we can unlock not only ourselves, but also those nearest and dearest to our hearts. It may not be easy, and certainly those feelings of jealousy may be the single most difficult factor to overcome. But perhaps just communicating those ideas to each other may open up new areas of fun and excitement.

So . . . communication is the key!!! Talk to your partner, your husband, your wife.

Maybe THEY want to be that someone that YOU want them to be too . . . !!!

Xxx – K

P.S. – Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury, (see my side-bar), for my photo-silhouette above.

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Top 100 Sex Blogger nominations are open for this year

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Last October I was absolutely thrilled to have been been included in the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012 at Rori’s Between My Sheets.

I had only been publishing my on-line diary for less than 12 months at the time and although I had already been regularly receiving emails from people telling me how much they had enjoyed reading of my experiences . . . and how in many cases it had helped them in their own personal lives . . . it was a huge surprise, and extremely flattering and humbling to have been included amongst such exciting, entertaining, insightful, interesting and inspirational writers and bloggers.

And to have since personally met and regularly correspond with a number of fellow UK-based people featured on the list has been an even more wonderful experience.

I have always believed that it is incredibly important, and empowering, to be able to share and express ones feelings, thoughts and desires . . . and I don’t mean just “sexual” feelings and experiences, but ALL of our emotions . . . within ones close personal relationships. For me, “communication” is THE single most important factor in any relationship. And ALL of the people on Rori’s list communicate, in one way or another through their blogging, their own ideas, experiences, preferences and beliefs. And it is that open communication, and sharing, that I find so enthralling and interesting . . . and yes often entertaining and arousing . . . that keeps me “following” and re-visiting so many of these people on Rori’s list.

Of course, I would love to be nominated once again this year, but I would also sincerely urge you all to spend some time, if you haven’t already done so, discovering the joys and delights . . . and giggles and gasps . . . from Rori’s complete list from 2012.

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And, once again, you can add your nominations for The Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013 >here< !

With best wishes – Katie

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Oh, and P.S. – My picture above is by the wonderful John Tisbury (see my side-bar for a link to his portfolio site)

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